"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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skeeloo

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how do you knowwhen youv gained bulk. some dudes do it with a measurement tapes. what i mostly do is i got this medium sized t-shirt. now after each workout trying it on to see if its tight for me. if it isnt then i havnt gained well.its like im never content i always want to gained more mass. most times i see my self smaller than i actually am and other times more than .
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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donjuanjovi

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If you're going to judge by your t-shirt, than don't try it on after every workout. Throw it in the closet for a month. You're not going to 'gain bulk' from a single workout.

I judge myself by the 'nekid factor'. I take my dashing good looks, divide it by my outstanding physique, than multiply it by my low body fat which gives me a feel good 'nekid' number............... Basically I look in the mirror.


For those who live under rocks. Nekid = naked, with attitude.
 

stronglifts

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*use mirror
*take pictures
*use the measurement tape
*don't believe the scale, water retention can cheat the numbers.

do it weekly, every time under the same circumstances.

-Mehdi.
 
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