"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Your outfit
- Thread starter PEACEDJ
- Start date
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Viper423
Senior Don Juan
-Ribbed T-shirt from Structure
-Hem/Surfer necklace
-Doc Martin Boots
-And my State Baseball Championship ring
I'm an amateur bodybuilder so I like to wear tight fitting shirts like the ribbed t's from Structure.
being "weird" is more of a gift than a curse. weird simply means different or unique. no girl wants a "normal" guy when it comes down to it. you have a better chance with women because you are not the type to just try to fit in with the crowd. as you approach a girl, and i've found this to work, think of whatever you think is wrong with you, and think of how proud you are to have that trait. i myself don't exactly "fit in," but i'm accepted because i am proud to be different. that, obviously, shows confidence.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
RockGuitarist
Don Juan
- Joined
- Oct 29, 2002
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Yeh... It's been KinoOI for a looong time. He went from Lorenzo to Kino to Scarface.
Anyway, I believe he's gone and in a better place now (like his girlfriend's pants
)Sure do miss the f'ucker though.
TheManlyMan
Don Juan
- Joined
- Dec 19, 2005
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- 81
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- Age
- 37
when I feel flashy I wear button ups and clean jeans w/ clean shoes.
favorite combo.
black tank top/wife beater
tight fitting white button up w/ black pink and yellow stripes
straight black jeans
black on white Nike Air Forces
Fashion Shields (those sun glasses that are silver at the top but fade away so they're clear at the bottom of the lens)
^ when I go sarging, this combo gets tons of compliments
CrazyAsianBiker
Don Juan
- Joined
- May 16, 2003
- Messages
- 181
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theory of knowledge
Don Juan
- Joined
- Jun 23, 2005
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br khakis and ripped jeans
gap/br dress shirts (striped or darker colours...im not tall)
mexx blazer/leather jacket/wool coat
adidas/puma/shox
i got a question...what can i wear with Banana chinos beside dress shoes? i dont like wearing dress shoes on a daily basis.
im thinking of trying that adidas oldschool style in the future.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.