"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Your outfit
- Thread starter PEACEDJ
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Viper423
Senior Don Juan
-Ribbed T-shirt from Structure
-Hem/Surfer necklace
-Doc Martin Boots
-And my State Baseball Championship ring
I'm an amateur bodybuilder so I like to wear tight fitting shirts like the ribbed t's from Structure.
being "weird" is more of a gift than a curse. weird simply means different or unique. no girl wants a "normal" guy when it comes down to it. you have a better chance with women because you are not the type to just try to fit in with the crowd. as you approach a girl, and i've found this to work, think of whatever you think is wrong with you, and think of how proud you are to have that trait. i myself don't exactly "fit in," but i'm accepted because i am proud to be different. that, obviously, shows confidence.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
RockGuitarist
Don Juan
- Joined
- Oct 29, 2002
- Messages
- 92
- Reaction score
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Yeh... It's been KinoOI for a looong time. He went from Lorenzo to Kino to Scarface.
Anyway, I believe he's gone and in a better place now (like his girlfriend's pants
)Sure do miss the f'ucker though.
TheManlyMan
Don Juan
- Joined
- Dec 19, 2005
- Messages
- 81
- Reaction score
- 0
- Age
- 37
when I feel flashy I wear button ups and clean jeans w/ clean shoes.
favorite combo.
black tank top/wife beater
tight fitting white button up w/ black pink and yellow stripes
straight black jeans
black on white Nike Air Forces
Fashion Shields (those sun glasses that are silver at the top but fade away so they're clear at the bottom of the lens)
^ when I go sarging, this combo gets tons of compliments
CrazyAsianBiker
Don Juan
- Joined
- May 16, 2003
- Messages
- 181
- Reaction score
- 0
theory of knowledge
Don Juan
- Joined
- Jun 23, 2005
- Messages
- 185
- Reaction score
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br khakis and ripped jeans
gap/br dress shirts (striped or darker colours...im not tall)
mexx blazer/leather jacket/wool coat
adidas/puma/shox
i got a question...what can i wear with Banana chinos beside dress shoes? i dont like wearing dress shoes on a daily basis.
im thinking of trying that adidas oldschool style in the future.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.