Suaveman
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What is the most effective technique you DJs have used for roping in girls?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Your most effective technique
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
DiSt0rTi0n_07
Don Juan
#1 technique is not concentrating on 1 technique.
For example:
a) Don't make EC with a HB and forget to smile. (You look like a stalker waiting for a chance to kill)
b) Don't approach a HB and not say anything. (If you do this you are a pansie-@$$)
c) Don't use C+F and forget to smile. (Sincere C+F? You may as well go tell her you are a necropheliac and ask her how well she plays dead!!!)
d)Don't fake confidence and expect results. (If you do this, OMG I can't even think of some smart@$$ remark to say !!!!!)
INSTEAD:
Make positive eye contact and smile!
Approach her and INTRODUCE YOURSELF!
Use C+F WHEN APPROPRIATE and always do it WITH A SMILE!
EXUDE CONFIDENCE and ENFORCE it!
Hopefully this made sense. I have quite a pet peeve of ppl that try to fake confidence.
Good luck suaveman! I hope your results improve dramatically.
For example:
a) Don't make EC with a HB and forget to smile. (You look like a stalker waiting for a chance to kill)
b) Don't approach a HB and not say anything. (If you do this you are a pansie-@$$)
c) Don't use C+F and forget to smile. (Sincere C+F? You may as well go tell her you are a necropheliac and ask her how well she plays dead!!!)
d)Don't fake confidence and expect results. (If you do this, OMG I can't even think of some smart@$$ remark to say !!!!!)
INSTEAD:
Make positive eye contact and smile!
Approach her and INTRODUCE YOURSELF!
Use C+F WHEN APPROPRIATE and always do it WITH A SMILE!
EXUDE CONFIDENCE and ENFORCE it!
Hopefully this made sense. I have quite a pet peeve of ppl that try to fake confidence.
Good luck suaveman! I hope your results improve dramatically.
CapiCrimini
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This can work against you quite easily... your focusing on negatives and what can go wrong rather then what can go right... it can make you more un-easy then anything else.
DiSt0rTi0n_07
Don Juan
On the other hand, you can possibly identify one of these as being a problem and read below what you should be doing.
When you can relate closely with something written it sticks in your mind. Your brain is almost eager to see how to correct it.
No worries man, I wouldn't put this down if I didn't write what they should be doing instead below it.
When you can relate closely with something written it sticks in your mind. Your brain is almost eager to see how to correct it.
No worries man, I wouldn't put this down if I didn't write what they should be doing instead below it.
CapiCrimini
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I understand but some people might misunderstand... I was just trying to make sure people understood... if you focus on losing... you tend to lose... focus on winning you tend to win...
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
squirrels
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Press lightly between the second and third cervical vertebrae until you start to see her nostrils flare. Then she's yours to command however you wish. Just don't spread this around too much, it's dangerous in the wrong hands
There is no "one technique" that will get you laid, man. It's a synergy of a lot of little things that build the overall impression. Looking her in the eye, "C&F", "neg-hits", no one of these things by itself is magic.
Dukester
Master Don Juan
technique? there isn't a universal technique that everyone can you. this site provides us w/ tips and ways do land chicks, but these ways are not fool proof. something might work for someone, and not work for someone else.
you have to flow smoothly, not look fake, have confidence, find things to talk about, have good ec, be c&f.
those are just some of the things that i use
you have to flow smoothly, not look fake, have confidence, find things to talk about, have good ec, be c&f.
those are just some of the things that i use
There isn't one technique that will get you all the girls, that's given. But one main thing you want to focus on is always being in control of yourself. Keep good posture, stay polite, etc.
It's all about how you present yourself
~ivan
It's all about how you present yourself
~ivan
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I agree with what's already been said. I spent months studying and practising all the techniques I've encountered. I tried abiding by the "rules", talking to women with authority, with indifference, with C+F and neg hits. I even tried speed seduction and made a complete fool out of myself (please save your dignity and give this a miss!)
However, the most effective aspects of my DJ studies was everything relating to self-improvement. I improved my confidence, my tone, my posture and, more recently, my body (and continuing). These are the things that are getting results. And when I talk about results, I'm talking about women chatting me up and asking for my number!
If you want women to find you attractive, you have to become attractive and I believe almost everyone is capable of that given time and effort.
However, the most effective aspects of my DJ studies was everything relating to self-improvement. I improved my confidence, my tone, my posture and, more recently, my body (and continuing). These are the things that are getting results. And when I talk about results, I'm talking about women chatting me up and asking for my number!
If you want women to find you attractive, you have to become attractive and I believe almost everyone is capable of that given time and effort.
strong like bull
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my most effective technique is being the greatest man i can be. for myself. setting high standards and making them a reality. letting my instincts and testosterone rule my judgement; not fears and doubt.
read Jvesti's "The Introduction of "T" Theory/Natural Game"
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=56120
read Pooks Be a Man, Secret of the Jerk, etc.
read Jvesti's "The Introduction of "T" Theory/Natural Game"
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=56120
read Pooks Be a Man, Secret of the Jerk, etc.
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How can a person fake confidence? That seems extremely hard to do.
Kineti[C]harm
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Wrong.
Kineti[C]harm
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The only technique is to live life to it's fullest, absorbing as much of it as you can and having as much fun as you can!
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.