"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Your marital status and desire to be married?
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
European-DJ
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Even though i am 19, i KNOW i want a son - no daughters, i am in no need of more than one female in the house....
women haze
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Yet so far this poll is showing that men want to settle down...interesting
Men want to settle down, but judging from the candidates to choose from, it's better to remain single and date often.women haze said:
Also, if this poll is under the mature forum, most guys would want to be single. In the regular forum, the young ones are still fantasizing about happily ever after.
But I couldn't really give a fvck about that...waaayyy too much work.
The ideal situation is to knock up a married woman and get some other poor sap to raise your kids. I almost did that a few years back.
Some might call it unethical, but happens all the fvcking time. Get your head out of lala land and realise that for men, marriage is a very big decision not to be taken lightly.
Add to that the fact that ANY woman will cheat, given the right circumstances, and it just looks like a lose-lose situation to me.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Upside
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The part that wants to is my idealism coming out. Finding the right girl, right time, right everything without a care in the world.
The part that doesn't is pragmatic. I fully understand the risks and dangers that entail. The fact that the dating period is just mostly the good sample enticing you to buy the whole enchilada, which turns out to be spoiled, rotten, and made with $hit quality ingredients.
If I EVER decide to take the plunge, I will not be going the "traditional" way. Cheap, but symbolic ring. Cheap, but meaningful wedding. Basically, I will have a woman who lives her life just as frugally as I do. And if she doesn't like it, she made it easy for me to show her the door with a good luck pat on the ass.
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
"He had everything, a great job, a beautiful wife, two loving children...."
Of course it all goes wrong for him in the film, but what struck me was the fact that our society considers the following to be "everything":
1) job
2) wife
3) kids
Reinforcement of monogamy
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.