"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Your horrible to me

PeterCrouch

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I get this alot from gals, one gal keeps saying "your not very nice, your horrible to me!"

and things like that

Your never nice, you dont ever do nice, your evil, your mean, meanie!

Good sign? Whats it mean?

Plus "Oh thats low" and "Ooo harsh words" i get that alot too!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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arutha

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Yep, its a good thing as long as they aren't saying it in an angry way. They're pretty much pointing out the obvious, and telling you that you aren't like other wusses and have the guts to say whatever the hell you like, and they clearly like it thats why they stick around.

A response: 'I'll try being nicer, if you try being smarter' :D

Or just laugh it off and agree with them, thats the best way.
 

Climax

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I also get that a lot... its nothing to worry about, they are just use to guys treating them like queens, and then someone like YOU comes along and breaks that cycle, they don’t know wtf is going on. BUT... believe it or not, it attracts them, because now they feel that when you ARE nice to them, is a privilege for them, and its also a "challenge" for them to get you to be nice to them.

Anyways... don’t worry about it, as long as you don’t OVER-DO it and be too much of an assh0le, its all good;)


Laterz...
 

Tboner

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I get that "You're so evil" from some chicks. It's always said with a smile by the woman. I take this as a very strong statement of attraction.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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