"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Your horrible to me

PeterCrouch

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I get this alot from gals, one gal keeps saying "your not very nice, your horrible to me!"

and things like that

Your never nice, you dont ever do nice, your evil, your mean, meanie!

Good sign? Whats it mean?

Plus "Oh thats low" and "Ooo harsh words" i get that alot too!
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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arutha

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Yep, its a good thing as long as they aren't saying it in an angry way. They're pretty much pointing out the obvious, and telling you that you aren't like other wusses and have the guts to say whatever the hell you like, and they clearly like it thats why they stick around.

A response: 'I'll try being nicer, if you try being smarter' :D

Or just laugh it off and agree with them, thats the best way.
 

Climax

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I also get that a lot... its nothing to worry about, they are just use to guys treating them like queens, and then someone like YOU comes along and breaks that cycle, they don’t know wtf is going on. BUT... believe it or not, it attracts them, because now they feel that when you ARE nice to them, is a privilege for them, and its also a "challenge" for them to get you to be nice to them.

Anyways... don’t worry about it, as long as you don’t OVER-DO it and be too much of an assh0le, its all good;)


Laterz...
 

Tboner

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I get that "You're so evil" from some chicks. It's always said with a smile by the woman. I take this as a very strong statement of attraction.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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