"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Your horrible to me

PeterCrouch

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I get this alot from gals, one gal keeps saying "your not very nice, your horrible to me!"

and things like that

Your never nice, you dont ever do nice, your evil, your mean, meanie!

Good sign? Whats it mean?

Plus "Oh thats low" and "Ooo harsh words" i get that alot too!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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arutha

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Yep, its a good thing as long as they aren't saying it in an angry way. They're pretty much pointing out the obvious, and telling you that you aren't like other wusses and have the guts to say whatever the hell you like, and they clearly like it thats why they stick around.

A response: 'I'll try being nicer, if you try being smarter' :D

Or just laugh it off and agree with them, thats the best way.
 

Climax

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I also get that a lot... its nothing to worry about, they are just use to guys treating them like queens, and then someone like YOU comes along and breaks that cycle, they don’t know wtf is going on. BUT... believe it or not, it attracts them, because now they feel that when you ARE nice to them, is a privilege for them, and its also a "challenge" for them to get you to be nice to them.

Anyways... don’t worry about it, as long as you don’t OVER-DO it and be too much of an assh0le, its all good;)


Laterz...
 

Tboner

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I get that "You're so evil" from some chicks. It's always said with a smile by the woman. I take this as a very strong statement of attraction.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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