"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Your favorite photos of women surrounded by other women or people?

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For photos of multiple women:

I like photos where, say a group of 5 women standing in a front yard or in front of a garage, all are wearing shoes and socks, except 1, who is standing barefoot. And she could be at the center, and she could be the tallest. Then to me, it shows she is the alpha leader of the pack. I love photos like that.

For photos of men and women:

Indoors, then only 1 woman is in bikinis, all the other men and women are fully clothed. Some men could be holding guitars, other women dressed like in an office setting, etc. In this case the only woman in bikinis should not be in the center.

Of course, photos like those are hard to find naturally...

If anyone has photos like the above 2, feel free to share, if it's allowed.

Note that none of these should be at beach or swimming pool settings. Because if they were, then you expect all the women to be in bikinis and all the men to be shirtless, then in that case, there is no "standing out of the pack."

Does this inspire any imagination here?

What do you guys suggest?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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What is this I don't even
 

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I would also equivalent a video version of this idea.

Say, a video where multiple people of different ages and gender get a few seconds of their own...

So somewhere in the video, will be a girl in bikinis. And she could be on a hot sunny day, but holding an umbrella and talking about her umbrella is her tool for when it rains, and that people should appreciate umbrellas more.

Then others could be a guy trying to fix a microwave, a guy in his garage fixing cars, an old lady with a hose watering plants, and talking about a new type of nozzle she installed, etc.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Wow dude you on psychedelics? Your posts are getting more and more random, and that’s saying a lot.
As opposed to posting the same and same thread topics that have already been posted?

There's only so much repeated-stuff that can come from an incel.
 

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For photos of multiple women:

I like photos where, say a group of 5 women standing in a front yard or in front of a garage, all are wearing shoes and socks, except 1, who is standing barefoot. And she could be at the center, and she could be the tallest. Then to me, it shows she is the alpha leader of the pack. I love photos like that.

For photos of men and women:

Indoors, then only 1 woman is in bikinis, all the other men and women are fully clothed. Some men could be holding guitars, other women dressed like in an office setting, etc. In this case the only woman in bikinis should not be in the center.

Of course, photos like those are hard to find naturally...

If anyone has photos like the above 2, feel free to share, if it's allowed.

Note that none of these should be at beach or swimming pool settings. Because if they were, then you expect all the women to be in bikinis and all the men to be shirtless, then in that case, there is no "standing out of the pack."

Does this inspire any imagination here?

What do you guys suggest?
The all-time Alpha-woman mogging photo:

jayne & sofia.jpg
 

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Here's a photo with a bunch of chicks and a man.

hef & playmate reunion.jpg
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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This is so funny with Sophia having the bigger and better rack, being better looking, and being the bigger star,

It's Catholicism that is mogging her, not Jayne Mansfield.
I'd have tapped either one.
 

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You know when a girl stands barefoot for a photo in her own residence, do you guys prefer she stands on a rug/carpet, or on hardwood floor?

For me there's something sexier for standing on hardwood floor. Floor = easier to wash than carpet, though having some rugs on hardwood floor is okay.
 
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