"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Your Favorite Opener

Blackdragon5095

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so whats your favorite opener and why dose it work ?? My is asking a question and being funny. Because asking a question helps get the girl attention on you, then being funny helps the girl relax and loss stress.

Me: hey, are you in a gang ??
Girl: no ( she laughs some )
Me: you can join my gang. We shoot people , jump people , smoke weed and run from cops it's alot of fun and good work out
Girl: l'll pass ( she laughs )

P.S. Read Art of Apporaching Women it has alot of stuff about openers or David Deangelo books and video
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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nishbuk

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Hi
 

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wazzzzzza....aaaa..aa...aaaa

seriously though, i usually just say hello unless im in a goofy mood, then i might say something silly like "didnt we go to different schools together?"
 

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can you send me a copy of the Art of Approaching Women e-book?
 

Colinski282

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Originally posted by Lomi
wazzzzzza....aaaa..aa...aaaa

seriously though, i usually just say hello unless im in a goofy mood, then i might say something silly like "didnt we go to different schools together?"

Hah i love that!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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"Hey are you gonna be walking to your car by yourself later?"
 
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^ Hahahaha!

That's good. I use something along the lines of

" I bet myself (or if your buddy is there with you, we had a bet,) that ... "

Works for me. Sometimes.
 

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"Do you wanna fvck?"

*dodge the slap* ;-)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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