"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Your Favorite Opener

Blackdragon5095

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so whats your favorite opener and why dose it work ?? My is asking a question and being funny. Because asking a question helps get the girl attention on you, then being funny helps the girl relax and loss stress.

Me: hey, are you in a gang ??
Girl: no ( she laughs some )
Me: you can join my gang. We shoot people , jump people , smoke weed and run from cops it's alot of fun and good work out
Girl: l'll pass ( she laughs )

P.S. Read Art of Apporaching Women it has alot of stuff about openers or David Deangelo books and video
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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nishbuk

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Hi
 

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wazzzzzza....aaaa..aa...aaaa

seriously though, i usually just say hello unless im in a goofy mood, then i might say something silly like "didnt we go to different schools together?"
 

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can you send me a copy of the Art of Approaching Women e-book?
 

Colinski282

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Originally posted by Lomi
wazzzzzza....aaaa..aa...aaaa

seriously though, i usually just say hello unless im in a goofy mood, then i might say something silly like "didnt we go to different schools together?"

Hah i love that!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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"Hey are you gonna be walking to your car by yourself later?"
 
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^ Hahahaha!

That's good. I use something along the lines of

" I bet myself (or if your buddy is there with you, we had a bet,) that ... "

Works for me. Sometimes.
 

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"Do you wanna fvck?"

*dodge the slap* ;-)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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