"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Your Favorite Opener

Blackdragon5095

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so whats your favorite opener and why dose it work ?? My is asking a question and being funny. Because asking a question helps get the girl attention on you, then being funny helps the girl relax and loss stress.

Me: hey, are you in a gang ??
Girl: no ( she laughs some )
Me: you can join my gang. We shoot people , jump people , smoke weed and run from cops it's alot of fun and good work out
Girl: l'll pass ( she laughs )

P.S. Read Art of Apporaching Women it has alot of stuff about openers or David Deangelo books and video
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Hi
 

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wazzzzzza....aaaa..aa...aaaa

seriously though, i usually just say hello unless im in a goofy mood, then i might say something silly like "didnt we go to different schools together?"
 

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can you send me a copy of the Art of Approaching Women e-book?
 

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Originally posted by Lomi
wazzzzzza....aaaa..aa...aaaa

seriously though, i usually just say hello unless im in a goofy mood, then i might say something silly like "didnt we go to different schools together?"

Hah i love that!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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"Hey are you gonna be walking to your car by yourself later?"
 
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^ Hahahaha!

That's good. I use something along the lines of

" I bet myself (or if your buddy is there with you, we had a bet,) that ... "

Works for me. Sometimes.
 

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"Do you wanna fvck?"

*dodge the slap* ;-)
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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