"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Your Favorite Movie ... and the Reason!

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For me, and for some time, it has been gladiator: a slave who became a hero who defied and defeated an evil emperor who was threatening the empire. Then Braveheart: a man who fought against injustice, and for the freedom of his people. Then Legends of the Fall: the story, romance and tragedy of the "romantic hero".

BUT NOW?

The Matrix, or The Lion King!

Why?

They were both lost kings and saviors forgotten by the world, till a woman, with the support of allies, awakened their sleeping genius, they rose to heights of power and overthrew evil, bringing freedom for all, once again.

What's yours? And why?

Let's talk story, and how it inspires and impacts our lives!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hey Welcome to the forum Bro.

For me personally, I would say it would be good classics like ' To Kill a Mockingbird', 'Rocky', School of Rock, happy Gilmore. Just characters who are deeply flawed, shows anti hero tendencies but over comes great struggles in the end.
 
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Hey Welcome to the forum Bro.

For me personally, I would say it would be good classics like ' To Kill a Mockingbird', 'Rocky', School of Rock, happy Gilmore. Just characters who are deeply flawed, shows anti hero tendencies but over comes great struggles in the end.
Would you say your life story echoes the story of the heroes in these stories, or is it just something that you admire and maybe aspire to become, as them? I think the reason for our favorite movies (and I think a man shouldn't go on a second date with a woman if he doesn't yet know her favorite movie and how the protaganist echoes her life story or aspirations) is that we identify with its hero in some way, and we draw inspiration and strength in knowing they, at last, prevailed victories.
 

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Gladiator is a great show as is matrix and lion king. For me it depends on my mood what show i think of. I watched a lot of movies before. Check out Fight Club(1999), and Grave of the Fireflies (Anime). BloodSport, Rageing Bull. Lots of others including Christmas Carrol.
 

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Would you say your life story echoes the story of the heroes in these stories, or is it just something that you admire and maybe aspire to become, as them? I think the reason for our favorite movies (and I think a man shouldn't go on a second date with a woman if he doesn't yet know her favorite movie and how the protaganist echoes her life story or aspirations) is that we identify with its hero in some way, and we draw inspiration and strength in knowing they, at last, prevailed victories.
Lol probably because there very relatable and the problems they face are universal but in a much larger scale. Some characters are admirable from the start, some they grow on you during the movie.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Hi Travels,
In my youth I went to the Movies maybe three times a week,there was no TV till 1962....The movies that were offered were incomparably better than today,In the US 80 million movie seats a week were sold in 1939...Look at the movies available,1939 alone saw nearly 400 Movies like "Gone with the Wind","Wizard of Oz","Of Mice and Men",Stage Coach","Hunch Back of Notre Dame"...We had all these plus some of the best British and French movies...Today while there are a few Gems, from producers like David McLean and Guy Ritchie in the main it is banal rubbish.
 
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Lol probably because there very relatable and the problems they face are universal but in a much larger scale. Some characters are admirable from the start, some they grow on you during the movie.
Do you prefer watching characters who are already admirable -- or the ones that are kind of weak and insecure in the beginning, but they grow into strong, confident individuals by the climax? Watching which one has the better payoff, would you say?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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