PRMoon
Master Don Juan
Megadeth most certainly does not blow. That's just ridiculouse talk. The fact that their front man was in metallica makes them great by degree. That's not even an argument.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Paul D'amore was a part of early Tool but he ain't sh!t. Megadeth was decent when I was in high school, and even then only in spurts. Mustaine doesn't have any growth to his music which is why it's passable at best. I still put it in my cd player every couple of years for nostalgia's sake.PRMoon said:Megadeth most certainly does not blow. That's just ridiculouse talk. The fact that their front man was in metallica makes them great by degree. That's not even an argument.
But you do put it in a cd player.KarmaSutra said:Paul D'amore was a part of early Tool but he ain't sh!t. Megadeth was decent when I was in high school, and even then only in spurts. Mustaine doesn't have any growth to his music which is why it's passable at best. I still put it in my cd player every couple of years for nostalgia's sake.
The only album I have is: Peace Sells... But Who's Buying?PRMoon said:But you do put it in a cd player.
Megadeth has monster guitar rifts and their music did progress well enough for a band of it's calliber. They had a music transgression of a little over a decade which is good enough to make them better then well over half the metal bands in existance period.
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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Yes, Dragonforce. And I don't care how much people rip apart Dragonforce...they're a good band as far as I'm concerned and very talented. Nightwish is good too, except it's a little to "chicky" for me. Don't know much about Kamelot, Epica, Within Temptation, or Rhapsody of Fire to say that I like them. Have to check 'em out though.Colin O'Brien said:Power metal/symphonic metal anyone?
Kamelot, Epica, Dragonforce, Within Temptation, Rhapsody of Fire.. hmm I gotta go with Nightwish as my favorite, both new and old.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Sevendust, tool, slipknot, alice in chains... ALTERNATIVE? Are you kidding me?MacAvoy said:I would suggest that most of the bands on your list are heavier than the polled bands. I would also suggest that the bands you listed are ALTERNATIVE bands, if you look at the bands polled, they are also from a different era although the lines get awfully close to blurred.
You're gonna talk about power metal and leave out Blind Guardian? What about Iced Earth? Stratovarious?Colin O'Brien said:Power metal/symphonic metal anyone?
Kamelot, Epica, Dragonforce, Within Temptation, Rhapsody of Fire.. hmm I gotta go with Nightwish as my favorite, both new and old.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.