PRMoon
Master Don Juan
Megadeth most certainly does not blow. That's just ridiculouse talk. The fact that their front man was in metallica makes them great by degree. That's not even an argument.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Paul D'amore was a part of early Tool but he ain't sh!t. Megadeth was decent when I was in high school, and even then only in spurts. Mustaine doesn't have any growth to his music which is why it's passable at best. I still put it in my cd player every couple of years for nostalgia's sake.PRMoon said:Megadeth most certainly does not blow. That's just ridiculouse talk. The fact that their front man was in metallica makes them great by degree. That's not even an argument.
But you do put it in a cd player.KarmaSutra said:Paul D'amore was a part of early Tool but he ain't sh!t. Megadeth was decent when I was in high school, and even then only in spurts. Mustaine doesn't have any growth to his music which is why it's passable at best. I still put it in my cd player every couple of years for nostalgia's sake.
The only album I have is: Peace Sells... But Who's Buying?PRMoon said:But you do put it in a cd player.
Megadeth has monster guitar rifts and their music did progress well enough for a band of it's calliber. They had a music transgression of a little over a decade which is good enough to make them better then well over half the metal bands in existance period.
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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Yes, Dragonforce. And I don't care how much people rip apart Dragonforce...they're a good band as far as I'm concerned and very talented. Nightwish is good too, except it's a little to "chicky" for me. Don't know much about Kamelot, Epica, Within Temptation, or Rhapsody of Fire to say that I like them. Have to check 'em out though.Colin O'Brien said:Power metal/symphonic metal anyone?
Kamelot, Epica, Dragonforce, Within Temptation, Rhapsody of Fire.. hmm I gotta go with Nightwish as my favorite, both new and old.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Sevendust, tool, slipknot, alice in chains... ALTERNATIVE? Are you kidding me?MacAvoy said:I would suggest that most of the bands on your list are heavier than the polled bands. I would also suggest that the bands you listed are ALTERNATIVE bands, if you look at the bands polled, they are also from a different era although the lines get awfully close to blurred.
You're gonna talk about power metal and leave out Blind Guardian? What about Iced Earth? Stratovarious?Colin O'Brien said:Power metal/symphonic metal anyone?
Kamelot, Epica, Dragonforce, Within Temptation, Rhapsody of Fire.. hmm I gotta go with Nightwish as my favorite, both new and old.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.