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Don Juan
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word to pantera! guitar solo from floods is favourite of all time, any genre.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Rock on I like Megadeth too...Youthenasia is my absolute favorite metal album of all time.Reborn said:prefer megadeth of the two I know of in the poll. Their songs are alot more fun to play than the metallica versions. Though Kill em all & MoP is really great albums. So many great bands, pantera is def up there as well.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
i remember the first time i ever saw disturbed , they opened for nickelback (who sucked that night ) who opened for the headliner....SEVENDUST.ValleyDJing said:I'm a big fan of Disturbed (and music in general actually). Disturbed is the s.hit!
Unearth is what you call metalcore.bmxcetera said:Unearth
Espi said:Added a thinking man's dimension to metal...Metallica mostly sang about evil and imaginary dragons and shiat...
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I'm planning on going to see Disturbed and Sevendust this summer when the Mayhem tour hits Fresno.penkitten said:i remember the first time i ever saw disturbed , they opened for nickelback (who sucked that night ) who opened for the headliner....SEVENDUST.
mosh in a pit for me!! then get way up front by the stage in front of a speaker that almost blows your eardrums and when the pit pushes into the crowd behind you and everyone pushes into you and you get squeezed in between the crowd and the stage or the bar that goes in front of the stage..smile and think of me.. then kick someone in the knee!ValleyDJing said:I'm planning on going to see Disturbed and Sevendust this summer when the Mayhem tour hits Fresno.
This is precisely what Tool has brought to sh!t, I mean, today's heavy music.Espi said:Added a thinking man's dimension to metal...
theres always room for a pit...ValleyDJing said:lol! I'm hardcore, but I'm not hardcore enough to do that. Its gonna be in a stadium so I don't even know if there will be a mosh pit. Idk, it will be my first concert.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.