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Don Juan
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word to pantera! guitar solo from floods is favourite of all time, any genre.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Rock on I like Megadeth too...Youthenasia is my absolute favorite metal album of all time.Reborn said:prefer megadeth of the two I know of in the poll. Their songs are alot more fun to play than the metallica versions. Though Kill em all & MoP is really great albums. So many great bands, pantera is def up there as well.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
i remember the first time i ever saw disturbed , they opened for nickelback (who sucked that night ) who opened for the headliner....SEVENDUST.ValleyDJing said:I'm a big fan of Disturbed (and music in general actually). Disturbed is the s.hit!
Unearth is what you call metalcore.bmxcetera said:Unearth
Espi said:Added a thinking man's dimension to metal...Metallica mostly sang about evil and imaginary dragons and shiat...
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I'm planning on going to see Disturbed and Sevendust this summer when the Mayhem tour hits Fresno.penkitten said:i remember the first time i ever saw disturbed , they opened for nickelback (who sucked that night ) who opened for the headliner....SEVENDUST.
mosh in a pit for me!! then get way up front by the stage in front of a speaker that almost blows your eardrums and when the pit pushes into the crowd behind you and everyone pushes into you and you get squeezed in between the crowd and the stage or the bar that goes in front of the stage..smile and think of me.. then kick someone in the knee!ValleyDJing said:I'm planning on going to see Disturbed and Sevendust this summer when the Mayhem tour hits Fresno.
This is precisely what Tool has brought to sh!t, I mean, today's heavy music.Espi said:Added a thinking man's dimension to metal...
theres always room for a pit...ValleyDJing said:lol! I'm hardcore, but I'm not hardcore enough to do that. Its gonna be in a stadium so I don't even know if there will be a mosh pit. Idk, it will be my first concert.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.