canadianmetalhead
Don Juan
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- Feb 19, 2008
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word to pantera! guitar solo from floods is favourite of all time, any genre.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Rock on I like Megadeth too...Youthenasia is my absolute favorite metal album of all time.Reborn said:prefer megadeth of the two I know of in the poll. Their songs are alot more fun to play than the metallica versions. Though Kill em all & MoP is really great albums. So many great bands, pantera is def up there as well.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
i remember the first time i ever saw disturbed , they opened for nickelback (who sucked that night ) who opened for the headliner....SEVENDUST.ValleyDJing said:I'm a big fan of Disturbed (and music in general actually). Disturbed is the s.hit!
Unearth is what you call metalcore.bmxcetera said:Unearth
Espi said:Added a thinking man's dimension to metal...Metallica mostly sang about evil and imaginary dragons and shiat...
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
I'm planning on going to see Disturbed and Sevendust this summer when the Mayhem tour hits Fresno.penkitten said:i remember the first time i ever saw disturbed , they opened for nickelback (who sucked that night ) who opened for the headliner....SEVENDUST.
mosh in a pit for me!! then get way up front by the stage in front of a speaker that almost blows your eardrums and when the pit pushes into the crowd behind you and everyone pushes into you and you get squeezed in between the crowd and the stage or the bar that goes in front of the stage..smile and think of me.. then kick someone in the knee!ValleyDJing said:I'm planning on going to see Disturbed and Sevendust this summer when the Mayhem tour hits Fresno.
This is precisely what Tool has brought to sh!t, I mean, today's heavy music.Espi said:Added a thinking man's dimension to metal...
theres always room for a pit...ValleyDJing said:lol! I'm hardcore, but I'm not hardcore enough to do that. Its gonna be in a stadium so I don't even know if there will be a mosh pit. Idk, it will be my first concert.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.