Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Your Experience with chicks who always

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DJnoob

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say "i'm just joking".

Like, this chick at work would always say crap like

"when are you gona call me.. just joking"

"want to be my valentines? just jokijng"

"we gona hang out in your car? just joking"

its really annoying. Im thinking of maybe just saying "well, I wasnt' joking" if she brings something up again

So, my questions is, how would someone like you guys who are more experienced than me handle this?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Whether she is serious or not (sounds like she really wants some d1ck, and is trying to "drop hints"), just use it for some CF:

- Hey, if you want to take me out for dinner, just say so ;) *sly smile* but lemme tell ya... I'm not that easy.


Just go off on that sh1t. And by the way, is this someone you actually want to mack? If so, just proceed as usual (ask for number/whatever). If this is someone from work, well that's another story.
 
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if u really wanna mess with her say "you better be jokin"
 
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DJnoob

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Originally posted by Gonzalo
Whether she is serious or not (sounds like she really wants some d1ck, and is trying to "drop hints"), just use it for some CF:

- Hey, if you want to take me out for dinner, just say so ;) *sly smile* but lemme tell ya... I'm not that easy.


Just go off on that sh1t. And by the way, is this someone you actually want to mack? If so, just proceed as usual (ask for number/whatever). If this is someone from work, well that's another story.
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yeah, from work. I just want to eat her out.

Today she said: "hey, want to be my valentine, just kidding"
me: "ok, let me see your hand..first (examines nails) you need to get them done first"

One time like last week we were alone and I just straight up told her

"What time is your lunch, got 20 minutes? and oh, bring a can of whip cream"
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I always say that every joke has some truth behind it. Thus, she obviously wants to do something. Just be like "come over around 9pm and bring some dinner."
 
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ill try to get to the bottom of this and do a FR
 
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