"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Your Experience with chicks who always

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DJnoob

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say "i'm just joking".

Like, this chick at work would always say crap like

"when are you gona call me.. just joking"

"want to be my valentines? just jokijng"

"we gona hang out in your car? just joking"

its really annoying. Im thinking of maybe just saying "well, I wasnt' joking" if she brings something up again

So, my questions is, how would someone like you guys who are more experienced than me handle this?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Whether she is serious or not (sounds like she really wants some d1ck, and is trying to "drop hints"), just use it for some CF:

- Hey, if you want to take me out for dinner, just say so ;) *sly smile* but lemme tell ya... I'm not that easy.


Just go off on that sh1t. And by the way, is this someone you actually want to mack? If so, just proceed as usual (ask for number/whatever). If this is someone from work, well that's another story.
 
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if u really wanna mess with her say "you better be jokin"
 
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Originally posted by Gonzalo
Whether she is serious or not (sounds like she really wants some d1ck, and is trying to "drop hints"), just use it for some CF:

- Hey, if you want to take me out for dinner, just say so ;) *sly smile* but lemme tell ya... I'm not that easy.


Just go off on that sh1t. And by the way, is this someone you actually want to mack? If so, just proceed as usual (ask for number/whatever). If this is someone from work, well that's another story.
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yeah, from work. I just want to eat her out.

Today she said: "hey, want to be my valentine, just kidding"
me: "ok, let me see your hand..first (examines nails) you need to get them done first"

One time like last week we were alone and I just straight up told her

"What time is your lunch, got 20 minutes? and oh, bring a can of whip cream"
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I always say that every joke has some truth behind it. Thus, she obviously wants to do something. Just be like "come over around 9pm and bring some dinner."
 
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ill try to get to the bottom of this and do a FR
 
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