"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Your experience flaking on women

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BlueAlpha1

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Honestly, I've never done this before. But it's something I might employ the next 2 girls I chat up, "just to see what it's like" as the girl with the inter-racial one night stand on a cruise would say. Flaking is so out of proportion now it seems like we have to respond.

I tried online dating for the first time this year. POF was a total waste with an 85% ignore rate. You figure Tinder would be easier, but I've chatted up 4 girls who bantered for 2 days and then disappeared, 2 of which actually unmatched so I couldn't see them anymore.

Flaking on women: cutting off your nose to spite your face or justice?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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DaddyLongShanks

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BlueAlpha1 said:
Honestly, I've never done this before. But it's something I might employ the next 2 girls I chat up, "just to see what it's like" as the girl with the inter-racial one night stand on a cruise would say. Flaking is so out of proportion now it seems like we have to respond.

I tried online dating for the first time this year. POF was a total waste with an 85% ignore rate. You figure Tinder would be easier, but I've chatted up 4 girls who bantered for 2 days and then disappeared, 2 of which actually unmatched so I couldn't see them anymore.

Flaking on women: cutting off your nose to spite your face or justice?
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As a man unless you have an exceptional profile it's easier to do it in person. Some women are visual like men, so they will "grocery shop" on these sites, and if you have good pics showing a good bod, social proofing, a good life they will get hooked and want to know more.
 
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Why would I waste my time arranging a date with someone I would consider flaking on?

It's nonsensical, we are not the women, remember.
 
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