"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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BlueAlpha1

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Honestly, I've never done this before. But it's something I might employ the next 2 girls I chat up, "just to see what it's like" as the girl with the inter-racial one night stand on a cruise would say. Flaking is so out of proportion now it seems like we have to respond.

I tried online dating for the first time this year. POF was a total waste with an 85% ignore rate. You figure Tinder would be easier, but I've chatted up 4 girls who bantered for 2 days and then disappeared, 2 of which actually unmatched so I couldn't see them anymore.

Flaking on women: cutting off your nose to spite your face or justice?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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BlueAlpha1 said:
Honestly, I've never done this before. But it's something I might employ the next 2 girls I chat up, "just to see what it's like" as the girl with the inter-racial one night stand on a cruise would say. Flaking is so out of proportion now it seems like we have to respond.

I tried online dating for the first time this year. POF was a total waste with an 85% ignore rate. You figure Tinder would be easier, but I've chatted up 4 girls who bantered for 2 days and then disappeared, 2 of which actually unmatched so I couldn't see them anymore.

Flaking on women: cutting off your nose to spite your face or justice?
As a man unless you have an exceptional profile it's easier to do it in person. Some women are visual like men, so they will "grocery shop" on these sites, and if you have good pics showing a good bod, social proofing, a good life they will get hooked and want to know more.
 

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Why would I waste my time arranging a date with someone I would consider flaking on?

It's nonsensical, we are not the women, remember.
 
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