Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Your experience flaking on women

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BlueAlpha1

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Honestly, I've never done this before. But it's something I might employ the next 2 girls I chat up, "just to see what it's like" as the girl with the inter-racial one night stand on a cruise would say. Flaking is so out of proportion now it seems like we have to respond.

I tried online dating for the first time this year. POF was a total waste with an 85% ignore rate. You figure Tinder would be easier, but I've chatted up 4 girls who bantered for 2 days and then disappeared, 2 of which actually unmatched so I couldn't see them anymore.

Flaking on women: cutting off your nose to spite your face or justice?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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BlueAlpha1 said:
Honestly, I've never done this before. But it's something I might employ the next 2 girls I chat up, "just to see what it's like" as the girl with the inter-racial one night stand on a cruise would say. Flaking is so out of proportion now it seems like we have to respond.

I tried online dating for the first time this year. POF was a total waste with an 85% ignore rate. You figure Tinder would be easier, but I've chatted up 4 girls who bantered for 2 days and then disappeared, 2 of which actually unmatched so I couldn't see them anymore.

Flaking on women: cutting off your nose to spite your face or justice?
As a man unless you have an exceptional profile it's easier to do it in person. Some women are visual like men, so they will "grocery shop" on these sites, and if you have good pics showing a good bod, social proofing, a good life they will get hooked and want to know more.
 

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Why would I waste my time arranging a date with someone I would consider flaking on?

It's nonsensical, we are not the women, remember.
 
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