"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Crissco

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As you see a hottie walking home from school/work. How would you initiate a convo without coming off as weird?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Very difficult. Very, very difficult. In this day and age, they think you are a creep. But if you are a good looking guy, just smile and see if she smiles back. Say something like "hey, you are gorgeous!" if she says anything say "I have to ask, what's your name, tell me you're single!". Don't be afraid to give credit where credit is due. Or some stupid shivt where a conversation can develop. I told this girl at the gym that she looked like Scarlett Johansen, even though the bitvch is no where near her. Now, she smiles and blushes when I walk by. The point is, see if she responds. This is VERY difficult, especially on college campuses.
 

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Exactly what I don't want to come across as. A CREEP! That was my first thought. I have no problem coming across as normal in any situation. But I think the fact I have a car and initially stop, she knows something is up, so it automatically puts her off guard.
I did start up a sick convo with this hot crazy ass driver though, but we were both in cars and I had a good conversation starter (she was a crazy good driver!)
 

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Darth said:
Ask for directions.
This...It's genius.

think about it, when is it ever ok for a person in a car to talk to a person walking? anything else you say is creepy. and make sure u don't ask directions or something creepy too.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Lol, where's ALPHAROMEO?
 

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I just make eye contact, smile and say hi. =]
If she responds positively, then right after she passes me I say: "Do my good looks really intimidate you that much?" or "You can't just give me that look and smile and walk away." Both work like a charm and start a little giggling session, lol.
 

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I ask for directions to the library. I even had stupid *****es believe me at first when asked at 2am in the morning.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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