"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Crissco

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As you see a hottie walking home from school/work. How would you initiate a convo without coming off as weird?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Very difficult. Very, very difficult. In this day and age, they think you are a creep. But if you are a good looking guy, just smile and see if she smiles back. Say something like "hey, you are gorgeous!" if she says anything say "I have to ask, what's your name, tell me you're single!". Don't be afraid to give credit where credit is due. Or some stupid shivt where a conversation can develop. I told this girl at the gym that she looked like Scarlett Johansen, even though the bitvch is no where near her. Now, she smiles and blushes when I walk by. The point is, see if she responds. This is VERY difficult, especially on college campuses.
 

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Exactly what I don't want to come across as. A CREEP! That was my first thought. I have no problem coming across as normal in any situation. But I think the fact I have a car and initially stop, she knows something is up, so it automatically puts her off guard.
I did start up a sick convo with this hot crazy ass driver though, but we were both in cars and I had a good conversation starter (she was a crazy good driver!)
 

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Darth said:
Ask for directions.
This...It's genius.

think about it, when is it ever ok for a person in a car to talk to a person walking? anything else you say is creepy. and make sure u don't ask directions or something creepy too.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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zekko

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Lol, where's ALPHAROMEO?
 

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I just make eye contact, smile and say hi. =]
If she responds positively, then right after she passes me I say: "Do my good looks really intimidate you that much?" or "You can't just give me that look and smile and walk away." Both work like a charm and start a little giggling session, lol.
 

PapiChulo

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I ask for directions to the library. I even had stupid *****es believe me at first when asked at 2am in the morning.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

Read more...

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