"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Your daughter may currently be reading "romance novels" and that could be bad

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This is what women read, or rather, what your daughter might read in what are marketed as "romance novels" or "spicy novels."
You can find a version of the text here. I decided not to publish it because I consider the language "too much," but for your knowledge, it's worth giving it a read. (It was translated from Italian to English.)

So this is what's popular today?
What should we consider content a sane woman should read in bed at night?
Very well, it might entice her to have sex with you, but all these books do influence her mind to make bad decisions.
All these books talk about abused women, toxic things you don't want people to know about, kidnappings, rapes.
Even if they're fantasies, they should stay that way. It's like telling a man to rape a 10- or 11-year-old girl. I don't understand: women can have this content, while for men it's considered pedophilia, or a crime?

I can't understand how any sane woman could be in favor of reading this kind of thing, and moreover, how it's marketed to 12- or 13-year-old girls as "romance novels."
As men, we'd like to hear opinions on this from women like BeExcellent, SegaGenesis, and others on the forum.

We understand that there are some books that feature romance, thrills, and a few steamy scenes, but this seems to go beyond the pale, and women love it, because otherwise they wouldn't have read it.
It seems a bit like porn for us men, but this is much more shocking.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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That seems to be the case of each generation, they seem to get filthier and have dirtier kinks like the previous generations. You can see the evidence of it all in drugged out areas in cities like Philadelphia, New York, Chicago etc where homelessness and druggies runs rampant because of the moral decadence which have taken place over the years.It seems like the best type of women are those who’ve got a serene and peaceful faith guiding them in their lives. You can usually tell who they are with how the peaceful energy they bring in a room, you’ve gotta learn how to scan for their presence and they don’t always look stereotypically beautiful either. I do believe a reformed wh0re can exist, and turn out feminine and a change of character, some of the saints in history who were female were like that and that’s extreme example, why can’t regular women do that but in a smaller and practical scale? lol
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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What has been normalized is its use... A bit like the legalization of a soft drug.
 

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What has been normalized is its use...
So, teen girls reading romance novels where the words "p-s-y" and "c-c- s-c-ing" appear more often than HIV infections in rural Zambia isn't uncommon... Let's be grateful modern girls are confining themselves to fantasy:

In the not-too-distant past, they were getting knocked up for real, then spending prom night asphyxiating that damned thing in the lavatory 9 months later https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Melissa_Drexler Rather than snorting lines and getting piss faced off of Jell-O Shots
 

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You have to wonder what’s the new substitute to romance novels these days. Everyone is pretty much adrogynous these days and acting asexual compared to past generations. Things in Social Media, Porn Hub, and trendy magazines have taken a turn for the worse, maybe a cultural shift where it forces Men to get tougher might do some good.
 
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