"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Your daughter may currently be reading "romance novels" and that could be bad

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This is what women read, or rather, what your daughter might read in what are marketed as "romance novels" or "spicy novels."
You can find a version of the text here. I decided not to publish it because I consider the language "too much," but for your knowledge, it's worth giving it a read. (It was translated from Italian to English.)

So this is what's popular today?
What should we consider content a sane woman should read in bed at night?
Very well, it might entice her to have sex with you, but all these books do influence her mind to make bad decisions.
All these books talk about abused women, toxic things you don't want people to know about, kidnappings, rapes.
Even if they're fantasies, they should stay that way. It's like telling a man to rape a 10- or 11-year-old girl. I don't understand: women can have this content, while for men it's considered pedophilia, or a crime?

I can't understand how any sane woman could be in favor of reading this kind of thing, and moreover, how it's marketed to 12- or 13-year-old girls as "romance novels."
As men, we'd like to hear opinions on this from women like BeExcellent, SegaGenesis, and others on the forum.

We understand that there are some books that feature romance, thrills, and a few steamy scenes, but this seems to go beyond the pale, and women love it, because otherwise they wouldn't have read it.
It seems a bit like porn for us men, but this is much more shocking.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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That seems to be the case of each generation, they seem to get filthier and have dirtier kinks like the previous generations. You can see the evidence of it all in drugged out areas in cities like Philadelphia, New York, Chicago etc where homelessness and druggies runs rampant because of the moral decadence which have taken place over the years.It seems like the best type of women are those who’ve got a serene and peaceful faith guiding them in their lives. You can usually tell who they are with how the peaceful energy they bring in a room, you’ve gotta learn how to scan for their presence and they don’t always look stereotypically beautiful either. I do believe a reformed wh0re can exist, and turn out feminine and a change of character, some of the saints in history who were female were like that and that’s extreme example, why can’t regular women do that but in a smaller and practical scale? lol
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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What has been normalized is its use... A bit like the legalization of a soft drug.
 

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What has been normalized is its use...
So, teen girls reading romance novels where the words "p-s-y" and "c-c- s-c-ing" appear more often than HIV infections in rural Zambia isn't uncommon... Let's be grateful modern girls are confining themselves to fantasy:

In the not-too-distant past, they were getting knocked up for real, then spending prom night asphyxiating that damned thing in the lavatory 9 months later https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Melissa_Drexler Rather than snorting lines and getting piss faced off of Jell-O Shots
 

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You have to wonder what’s the new substitute to romance novels these days. Everyone is pretty much adrogynous these days and acting asexual compared to past generations. Things in Social Media, Porn Hub, and trendy magazines have taken a turn for the worse, maybe a cultural shift where it forces Men to get tougher might do some good.
 
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