"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Your daughter may currently be reading "romance novels" and that could be bad

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This is what women read, or rather, what your daughter might read in what are marketed as "romance novels" or "spicy novels."
You can find a version of the text here. I decided not to publish it because I consider the language "too much," but for your knowledge, it's worth giving it a read. (It was translated from Italian to English.)

So this is what's popular today?
What should we consider content a sane woman should read in bed at night?
Very well, it might entice her to have sex with you, but all these books do influence her mind to make bad decisions.
All these books talk about abused women, toxic things you don't want people to know about, kidnappings, rapes.
Even if they're fantasies, they should stay that way. It's like telling a man to rape a 10- or 11-year-old girl. I don't understand: women can have this content, while for men it's considered pedophilia, or a crime?

I can't understand how any sane woman could be in favor of reading this kind of thing, and moreover, how it's marketed to 12- or 13-year-old girls as "romance novels."
As men, we'd like to hear opinions on this from women like BeExcellent, SegaGenesis, and others on the forum.

We understand that there are some books that feature romance, thrills, and a few steamy scenes, but this seems to go beyond the pale, and women love it, because otherwise they wouldn't have read it.
It seems a bit like porn for us men, but this is much more shocking.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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That seems to be the case of each generation, they seem to get filthier and have dirtier kinks like the previous generations. You can see the evidence of it all in drugged out areas in cities like Philadelphia, New York, Chicago etc where homelessness and druggies runs rampant because of the moral decadence which have taken place over the years.It seems like the best type of women are those who’ve got a serene and peaceful faith guiding them in their lives. You can usually tell who they are with how the peaceful energy they bring in a room, you’ve gotta learn how to scan for their presence and they don’t always look stereotypically beautiful either. I do believe a reformed wh0re can exist, and turn out feminine and a change of character, some of the saints in history who were female were like that and that’s extreme example, why can’t regular women do that but in a smaller and practical scale? lol
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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What has been normalized is its use... A bit like the legalization of a soft drug.
 

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What has been normalized is its use...
So, teen girls reading romance novels where the words "p-s-y" and "c-c- s-c-ing" appear more often than HIV infections in rural Zambia isn't uncommon... Let's be grateful modern girls are confining themselves to fantasy:

In the not-too-distant past, they were getting knocked up for real, then spending prom night asphyxiating that damned thing in the lavatory 9 months later https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Melissa_Drexler Rather than snorting lines and getting piss faced off of Jell-O Shots
 

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You have to wonder what’s the new substitute to romance novels these days. Everyone is pretty much adrogynous these days and acting asexual compared to past generations. Things in Social Media, Porn Hub, and trendy magazines have taken a turn for the worse, maybe a cultural shift where it forces Men to get tougher might do some good.
 
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