"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Your biggest roadblock

What is your biggest roadblock?

  • Meeting 'buddies' (strictly school etc)

    Votes: 5 8.9%
  • Meeting REAL friends

    Votes: 10 17.9%
  • Meeting girls that like you

    Votes: 12 21.4%
  • Developing Conversational Skills (including humor)

    Votes: 18 32.1%
  • Developing social standards (ie dressing appropriately)

    Votes: 3 5.4%
  • Overcoming anxiety/low confidence

    Votes: 17 30.4%
  • Creating attraction

    Votes: 18 32.1%
  • Having meaningful relationships

    Votes: 11 19.6%
  • Other

    Votes: 6 10.7%

  • Total voters
    56

Nocturnal

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Call it 'research' if you will, but before writing a post I plan on putting quite a bit of effort into, I'd like to see what most people are having problems with. So, if it's in the poll, vote for it, and if it's not, post it.

Thanks for the input
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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oakraiderz2

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Originally posted by nath
np
Whats that? Mine is just meating gilrs in general.
 

Beatflux

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I think everyone would agree when I say emotion.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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DJoneday

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I say relationships, my last two have gone to hell mostly because I lose interest after the chase...but I wouldn't mind settling down for a bit.
 

AC/DC

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Where's the "earning street credit" option and the "getting your name out there" option?

Those are way more important!
 
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meeting chicks and sometimes attracting maybe....I've been slacking hardcore lately and its not healthy.
 

Paranoid

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Originally posted by oakraiderz2
Whats that? Mine is just meating gilrs in general.
I guess its how you package your "meat" oaksy :D

Mine is sustaining interest...
 

Slimijs

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All of my old friends are hopeless AFC's and even my jerk friends have problems with chicks.

So I would like to have some great DJ buddies as wingmen.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Serg897

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looking through the possible choices, none of them really jump out at me right now. Maybe its becuase I have a great girlfriend right now......

but definately, Emotion is something I would choose
 

SuaveStarboy

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for me its; meeting girls, low self-confidence, meeting girls that like me(all the girls that claim they like me flake on me), and creating attraction
 

SnatchJP

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Meeting REAL friends, Finding eligible/attractive girls.

In other words: Meeting girls that I like. (As opposed to "Meeting girls that like me")
 
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Need-2-B-Pimpin

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Mine are meeting chicks at all and getting some real friends, most of my school buds that I'm stuck with suck.
 

Brazilian_Blues_Boy

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Making REAL friends, and especially, making buddies

I'm a man repeller LOL! :D

Seriously, I must have a very "Hey I'm an arrogant a$shole" face, because wherever I go, guys don't like me... really... and I don't do much, I try to be nice with everyone...

Who knows? :confused:

BBB
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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