Trainwreck
Master Don Juan
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I would tell you, but it would cause an uproar/topic to be deleted. I'm not a 300 lb neck beard living in my moms basement for starters.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Your biggest problem is that you were a social misfit and now you're lost.
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
AlexKaiser
Don Juan
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An uproar eh? That makes it even more intriguing. -desire to know more intensifies-
SuckItUp
Senior Don Juan
Part of the problem are distorted views of the so called perfect life. Hell, Brad Pitt married a cluster B woman in Angelina Jolie.
Is growing up in this perceived "perfect" environment easier? Sure. Is it without problems? Absolutely not.
Yes, it is easier for some people, but unless you are dealing with mental issues like depression, bipolar disorder, ADD, Asperger's etc. there are things that you can do to work on yourself that are much more easily correctible than adjusting with mental health issues.
That's why guys need to work themselves to feel good about themselves before worrying about women.
Nobody here is saying conform or else. We're just saying here's how things work and here's what you can do.
Is growing up in this perceived "perfect" environment easier? Sure. Is it without problems? Absolutely not.
Yes, it is easier for some people, but unless you are dealing with mental issues like depression, bipolar disorder, ADD, Asperger's etc. there are things that you can do to work on yourself that are much more easily correctible than adjusting with mental health issues.
That's why guys need to work themselves to feel good about themselves before worrying about women.
Nobody here is saying conform or else. We're just saying here's how things work and here's what you can do.