Trainwreck
Master Don Juan
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I would tell you, but it would cause an uproar/topic to be deleted. I'm not a 300 lb neck beard living in my moms basement for starters.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Your biggest problem is that you were a social misfit and now you're lost.
- Thread starter Listen_to_Olly
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
AlexKaiser
Don Juan
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An uproar eh? That makes it even more intriguing. -desire to know more intensifies-
SuckItUp
Senior Don Juan
Part of the problem are distorted views of the so called perfect life. Hell, Brad Pitt married a cluster B woman in Angelina Jolie.
Is growing up in this perceived "perfect" environment easier? Sure. Is it without problems? Absolutely not.
Yes, it is easier for some people, but unless you are dealing with mental issues like depression, bipolar disorder, ADD, Asperger's etc. there are things that you can do to work on yourself that are much more easily correctible than adjusting with mental health issues.
That's why guys need to work themselves to feel good about themselves before worrying about women.
Nobody here is saying conform or else. We're just saying here's how things work and here's what you can do.
Is growing up in this perceived "perfect" environment easier? Sure. Is it without problems? Absolutely not.
Yes, it is easier for some people, but unless you are dealing with mental issues like depression, bipolar disorder, ADD, Asperger's etc. there are things that you can do to work on yourself that are much more easily correctible than adjusting with mental health issues.
That's why guys need to work themselves to feel good about themselves before worrying about women.
Nobody here is saying conform or else. We're just saying here's how things work and here's what you can do.