Trainwreck
Master Don Juan
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I would tell you, but it would cause an uproar/topic to be deleted. I'm not a 300 lb neck beard living in my moms basement for starters.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Your biggest problem is that you were a social misfit and now you're lost.
- Thread starter Listen_to_Olly
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
AlexKaiser
Don Juan
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An uproar eh? That makes it even more intriguing. -desire to know more intensifies-
SuckItUp
Senior Don Juan
Part of the problem are distorted views of the so called perfect life. Hell, Brad Pitt married a cluster B woman in Angelina Jolie.
Is growing up in this perceived "perfect" environment easier? Sure. Is it without problems? Absolutely not.
Yes, it is easier for some people, but unless you are dealing with mental issues like depression, bipolar disorder, ADD, Asperger's etc. there are things that you can do to work on yourself that are much more easily correctible than adjusting with mental health issues.
That's why guys need to work themselves to feel good about themselves before worrying about women.
Nobody here is saying conform or else. We're just saying here's how things work and here's what you can do.
Is growing up in this perceived "perfect" environment easier? Sure. Is it without problems? Absolutely not.
Yes, it is easier for some people, but unless you are dealing with mental issues like depression, bipolar disorder, ADD, Asperger's etc. there are things that you can do to work on yourself that are much more easily correctible than adjusting with mental health issues.
That's why guys need to work themselves to feel good about themselves before worrying about women.
Nobody here is saying conform or else. We're just saying here's how things work and here's what you can do.