"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Your BEST quote to help inspire me

jeffthechef

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I'm not popular but i'm not a loser...i know i have brains/personality/looks

many popular/hot girls approached me freshman year (i was new to the school)..but once i began getting quieter..they all stopped trying...one girl drew kisses and hearts in my notebook and created a sentence in english describing us on a date...another girl wanted me to read to her afterschool because she said she could only focus that way..which i know was an excuse to spend time with me because i see her reading by herself all the time now...and much more

People tried to get to know me but last year i was not very outgoing/talkative
this year i'm going to change that...
i'm after a girl who happens to be popular and every time i see her messaging or talking to a jock (specifically the popular ones) i tell myself i have no chance even though i'm friends with some of them
i am sure she's attracted to me..we've talked a little..made physical contact..made hours of eye contact...and a bunch of other stuff..i know she would like to get to know me better but the problem is i always think negative thoughts as i begin to approach her

SOOOOOO
What's your quote? something that would help me maintain a positive attitude
Thanks :D
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I don't live by a quote to help me game chicks. I live by a quotes that tell me to live life to the fullest.

"This is your life and it's ending one minuted at a time"
"Do something worth remembering"
"This is the first day of the rest of your life"
 

War Against Betaism

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"You may be disappointed if you fail, but you're doomed if you never try." - Beverly Sills

"Be more concerned with your character than your reputation, because your character is what you really are, while your repuation is what others think of you." - John Wooden

"The perfect opportunity will never come. You just have to take your chances." - Unknown

"We cannot direct the wind, but we can adjust our sails." - Unknown

"Our greatest glory is not in never failing, but in rising in our fail." - Confucius

"How much in life is lost in waiting?" - Unknown

Though don't expect these quotes to change your life. You still have work ahead of you.
 

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Heres a quote from the book "Conversation guide for men" or "Conversation King" whatever its called, what a eye opening quote!

"Ive read interviews with supermodels complaining of things they didn't like about their bodies. Supermodels. Women so gorgeous that they are paid thousands of dollars an hour simply to stand there and look gorgeous. And even they have doubts about their attractiveness. So don't assume the woman you desire is so beautiful and sexy that she surely knows it and that she doesn't need any reassurance from you - she does. She not only needs it, she craves it. Give it to her, and a woman who might not have even given you a second glance will suddenly be dying to go home with you." :yes:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Triple T

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Ah dude don't sweat it. Just go for it, if you don't you'll really regret it!
Trust me.

Couple years from now you'll be out of HS and you'll look back and see all the oppurtunities that you missed.
You'll look back and say "damn, I could've been with that girl, and that girl and that girl. If only I would've talked to them, damn I was such a fool back then."

Just go up and talk to them, it'll get easier as the time passes. Shes already into you so why not?

Oh yea, heres one I heard from my cousin the other day.
"Life would be boring without any mess-ups"

And The Dark Knight: :D
"Why do we fall? So we learn to pick ourselves back up"
 

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"Ive always preferred all the co-ed stuff,like playing volleyball with the girls" -Tommy Lee

^That might not inspire you much but I love that quote.Tommy Lee is like my idol

-While at band practise in his tv show,a bored Tommy Lee turns to the random guy beside him and says "Hey, wheres the cheerleaders?"

"Suffer now,then after live your life as a champion" - This isnt related to girls at all but it makes sense.Just make that approach no matter how nerve racking it is but knowing the end result of meeting the girl will be worth while

"NO APPROACHING=NO END RESULT except you end up feeling like an idiot" - 619joe

"Are you gonna let that hot girl pass you by?Or are you gonna talk with her and make something happen" -someone on these boards I think
 

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read my sig.
 

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Cassanova_Child said:
"Dude, you just took out a helicopter with a tank!"
"I ran out of bullets."
I swear I've heard that before...whats it from?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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it is from live free or die hard lol...but i was talkin bout the second part of my sig :D.
 
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