"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Your BEST quote to help inspire me

jeffthechef

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I'm not popular but i'm not a loser...i know i have brains/personality/looks

many popular/hot girls approached me freshman year (i was new to the school)..but once i began getting quieter..they all stopped trying...one girl drew kisses and hearts in my notebook and created a sentence in english describing us on a date...another girl wanted me to read to her afterschool because she said she could only focus that way..which i know was an excuse to spend time with me because i see her reading by herself all the time now...and much more

People tried to get to know me but last year i was not very outgoing/talkative
this year i'm going to change that...
i'm after a girl who happens to be popular and every time i see her messaging or talking to a jock (specifically the popular ones) i tell myself i have no chance even though i'm friends with some of them
i am sure she's attracted to me..we've talked a little..made physical contact..made hours of eye contact...and a bunch of other stuff..i know she would like to get to know me better but the problem is i always think negative thoughts as i begin to approach her

SOOOOOO
What's your quote? something that would help me maintain a positive attitude
Thanks :D
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I don't live by a quote to help me game chicks. I live by a quotes that tell me to live life to the fullest.

"This is your life and it's ending one minuted at a time"
"Do something worth remembering"
"This is the first day of the rest of your life"
 

War Against Betaism

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"You may be disappointed if you fail, but you're doomed if you never try." - Beverly Sills

"Be more concerned with your character than your reputation, because your character is what you really are, while your repuation is what others think of you." - John Wooden

"The perfect opportunity will never come. You just have to take your chances." - Unknown

"We cannot direct the wind, but we can adjust our sails." - Unknown

"Our greatest glory is not in never failing, but in rising in our fail." - Confucius

"How much in life is lost in waiting?" - Unknown

Though don't expect these quotes to change your life. You still have work ahead of you.
 

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Heres a quote from the book "Conversation guide for men" or "Conversation King" whatever its called, what a eye opening quote!

"Ive read interviews with supermodels complaining of things they didn't like about their bodies. Supermodels. Women so gorgeous that they are paid thousands of dollars an hour simply to stand there and look gorgeous. And even they have doubts about their attractiveness. So don't assume the woman you desire is so beautiful and sexy that she surely knows it and that she doesn't need any reassurance from you - she does. She not only needs it, she craves it. Give it to her, and a woman who might not have even given you a second glance will suddenly be dying to go home with you." :yes:
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Triple T

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Ah dude don't sweat it. Just go for it, if you don't you'll really regret it!
Trust me.

Couple years from now you'll be out of HS and you'll look back and see all the oppurtunities that you missed.
You'll look back and say "damn, I could've been with that girl, and that girl and that girl. If only I would've talked to them, damn I was such a fool back then."

Just go up and talk to them, it'll get easier as the time passes. Shes already into you so why not?

Oh yea, heres one I heard from my cousin the other day.
"Life would be boring without any mess-ups"

And The Dark Knight: :D
"Why do we fall? So we learn to pick ourselves back up"
 

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"Ive always preferred all the co-ed stuff,like playing volleyball with the girls" -Tommy Lee

^That might not inspire you much but I love that quote.Tommy Lee is like my idol

-While at band practise in his tv show,a bored Tommy Lee turns to the random guy beside him and says "Hey, wheres the cheerleaders?"

"Suffer now,then after live your life as a champion" - This isnt related to girls at all but it makes sense.Just make that approach no matter how nerve racking it is but knowing the end result of meeting the girl will be worth while

"NO APPROACHING=NO END RESULT except you end up feeling like an idiot" - 619joe

"Are you gonna let that hot girl pass you by?Or are you gonna talk with her and make something happen" -someone on these boards I think
 

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read my sig.
 

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Cassanova_Child said:
"Dude, you just took out a helicopter with a tank!"
"I ran out of bullets."
I swear I've heard that before...whats it from?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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it is from live free or die hard lol...but i was talkin bout the second part of my sig :D.
 
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