"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Your BEST quote to help inspire me

jeffthechef

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I'm not popular but i'm not a loser...i know i have brains/personality/looks

many popular/hot girls approached me freshman year (i was new to the school)..but once i began getting quieter..they all stopped trying...one girl drew kisses and hearts in my notebook and created a sentence in english describing us on a date...another girl wanted me to read to her afterschool because she said she could only focus that way..which i know was an excuse to spend time with me because i see her reading by herself all the time now...and much more

People tried to get to know me but last year i was not very outgoing/talkative
this year i'm going to change that...
i'm after a girl who happens to be popular and every time i see her messaging or talking to a jock (specifically the popular ones) i tell myself i have no chance even though i'm friends with some of them
i am sure she's attracted to me..we've talked a little..made physical contact..made hours of eye contact...and a bunch of other stuff..i know she would like to get to know me better but the problem is i always think negative thoughts as i begin to approach her

SOOOOOO
What's your quote? something that would help me maintain a positive attitude
Thanks :D
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I don't live by a quote to help me game chicks. I live by a quotes that tell me to live life to the fullest.

"This is your life and it's ending one minuted at a time"
"Do something worth remembering"
"This is the first day of the rest of your life"
 

War Against Betaism

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"You may be disappointed if you fail, but you're doomed if you never try." - Beverly Sills

"Be more concerned with your character than your reputation, because your character is what you really are, while your repuation is what others think of you." - John Wooden

"The perfect opportunity will never come. You just have to take your chances." - Unknown

"We cannot direct the wind, but we can adjust our sails." - Unknown

"Our greatest glory is not in never failing, but in rising in our fail." - Confucius

"How much in life is lost in waiting?" - Unknown

Though don't expect these quotes to change your life. You still have work ahead of you.
 

HandyAndy

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Heres a quote from the book "Conversation guide for men" or "Conversation King" whatever its called, what a eye opening quote!

"Ive read interviews with supermodels complaining of things they didn't like about their bodies. Supermodels. Women so gorgeous that they are paid thousands of dollars an hour simply to stand there and look gorgeous. And even they have doubts about their attractiveness. So don't assume the woman you desire is so beautiful and sexy that she surely knows it and that she doesn't need any reassurance from you - she does. She not only needs it, she craves it. Give it to her, and a woman who might not have even given you a second glance will suddenly be dying to go home with you." :yes:
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Triple T

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Ah dude don't sweat it. Just go for it, if you don't you'll really regret it!
Trust me.

Couple years from now you'll be out of HS and you'll look back and see all the oppurtunities that you missed.
You'll look back and say "damn, I could've been with that girl, and that girl and that girl. If only I would've talked to them, damn I was such a fool back then."

Just go up and talk to them, it'll get easier as the time passes. Shes already into you so why not?

Oh yea, heres one I heard from my cousin the other day.
"Life would be boring without any mess-ups"

And The Dark Knight: :D
"Why do we fall? So we learn to pick ourselves back up"
 

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"Ive always preferred all the co-ed stuff,like playing volleyball with the girls" -Tommy Lee

^That might not inspire you much but I love that quote.Tommy Lee is like my idol

-While at band practise in his tv show,a bored Tommy Lee turns to the random guy beside him and says "Hey, wheres the cheerleaders?"

"Suffer now,then after live your life as a champion" - This isnt related to girls at all but it makes sense.Just make that approach no matter how nerve racking it is but knowing the end result of meeting the girl will be worth while

"NO APPROACHING=NO END RESULT except you end up feeling like an idiot" - 619joe

"Are you gonna let that hot girl pass you by?Or are you gonna talk with her and make something happen" -someone on these boards I think
 

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read my sig.
 

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Cassanova_Child said:
"Dude, you just took out a helicopter with a tank!"
"I ran out of bullets."
I swear I've heard that before...whats it from?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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it is from live free or die hard lol...but i was talkin bout the second part of my sig :D.
 
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