Your right it does take effort, THAT is the point. you don't want to make women your entire existance. Getting laid at the club takes no effort. She's drunk... in front of me ...I know what she looks like already. no suprises.Espi said:I respectfully disagree.
Online works well and has its own set of unique pros and cons.
And contrary to your opinion, online takes effort. Any guy who thinks otherwise is naive. A lot of guys seem to think you can send out 10 emails and end up with a date or two. Not true at all.
A DJ is a DJ, whether he's macking it up in clubs or spamming out emails behind his computer keyboard.
If your mind is confident, then you'll succeed WHEREVER you interact with women.
Simple concept.
did I mention she's already drunk?
If your looking for a relationship,..online date (not pof) is the way to go. Okcupid is a bit better...but it still is very time consuming. . save yourself the hassle of weeding out the crazies and attention *****s and go with match. much better looking women