"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Your best fantasy move!

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You know that chick you allways look at and think how you would approach her? Well .. how would you?

Gimme you BEST approach you can think of! :D
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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i don't think how
 

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Walk on over, take her in a romantic hollywood embrace "Gimme some Sugar Baby." and smooch her socks off.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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realistic+fantasy = oxymoron

does not work
 

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Originally posted by Sasha
You know that chick you allways look at and think how you would approach her? Well .. how would you?

Gimme you BEST approach you can think of! :D
Spinning clothesline, then fvck her while she's unconscious. Spell out my name in semen on her blouse and take pictures to show all her co-workers.
 

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Hand her a $5 bill and ask her for a drink....

"I don't even work here" she says

"I know you don't" I reply.

"So why'd you give it to me?" she asks

"How else would I get you away from all those other guys?" I ask with a ****y grin.....;)

p.s. Forgive me will smith
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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i go over and say :

me: Hi
Her: Hey
me: Do you wanna play army?
Her: how do you play that ?
Me: well i salute , and you blow the hell out of me =)

hehe =)
 

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Originally posted by DJ_in_making
Hand her a $5 bill and ask her for a drink....
"I don't even work here" she says
"I know you don't" I reply.
"So why'd you give it to me?" she asks
"How else would I get you away from all those other guys?" I ask with a ****y grin.....;)
p.s. Forgive me will smith
That was a GREAT MOVE.
 

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i've always had this thing, where a hott girl would come up to me or be talking to me and then she would say, fu*k me right now.. i always wondered what i would do if that would happen.



























until it did.. and i did nothing, because i was a "good guy" and didn't wanna seize the moment of a HB8 that was drunk as hell hittin on me askin me to give it to her hard. she even tried to drag me outside into the parking lot at this party.. *cries*
 

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Originally posted by christz
i've always had this thing, where a hott girl would come up to me or be talking to me and then she would say, fu*k me right now.. i always wondered what i would do if that would happen.



























until it did.. and i did nothing, because i was a "good guy" and didn't wanna seize the moment of a HB8 that was drunk as hell hittin on me askin me to give it to her hard. she even tried to drag me outside into the parking lot at this party.. *cries*
.....and you don't feel the least bit embarassed telling everyone this?:eek:
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Originally posted by DJ_in_making
.....and you don't feel the least bit embarassed telling everyone this?:eek:
no, because now its a story that i laugh about, happend last halloween SO, you live and learn :p
 

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Originally posted by christz
no, because now its a story that i laugh about, happend last halloween SO, you live and learn :p
it's all good, you learn from your mistakes....
 
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