Sasha
Don Juan
You know that chick you allways look at and think how you would approach her? Well .. how would you?
Gimme you BEST approach you can think of!
Gimme you BEST approach you can think of!
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
no time for smart answers,Originally posted by tactic
i don't think how
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Spinning clothesline, then fvck her while she's unconscious. Spell out my name in semen on her blouse and take pictures to show all her co-workers.Originally posted by Sasha
You know that chick you allways look at and think how you would approach her? Well .. how would you?
Gimme you BEST approach you can think of!![]()
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
That was a GREAT MOVE.Originally posted by DJ_in_making
Hand her a $5 bill and ask her for a drink....
"I don't even work here" she says
"I know you don't" I reply.
"So why'd you give it to me?" she asks
"How else would I get you away from all those other guys?" I ask with a ****y grin.....![]()
p.s. Forgive me will smith
.....and you don't feel the least bit embarassed telling everyone this?Originally posted by christz
i've always had this thing, where a hott girl would come up to me or be talking to me and then she would say, fu*k me right now.. i always wondered what i would do if that would happen.
until it did.. and i did nothing, because i was a "good guy" and didn't wanna seize the moment of a HB8 that was drunk as hell hittin on me askin me to give it to her hard. she even tried to drag me outside into the parking lot at this party.. *cries*
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
no, because now its a story that i laugh about, happend last halloween SO, you live and learnOriginally posted by DJ_in_making
.....and you don't feel the least bit embarassed telling everyone this?![]()
it's all good, you learn from your mistakes....Originally posted by christz
no, because now its a story that i laugh about, happend last halloween SO, you live and learn![]()