Sasha
Don Juan
You know that chick you allways look at and think how you would approach her? Well .. how would you?
Gimme you BEST approach you can think of!
Gimme you BEST approach you can think of!
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Your best fantasy move!
- Thread starter Sasha
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Sasha
Don Juan
no time for smart answers,
MidnightResistance
Senior Don Juan
Walk on over, take her in a romantic hollywood embrace "Gimme some Sugar Baby." and smooch her socks off.
spider_007
Master Don Juan
walk over, grab her by the hair, drop her down to my knees.....
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Sasha
Don Juan
maybe I should have writen "realistic fantasy"
MidnightResistance
Senior Don Juan
realistic+fantasy = oxymoron
does not work
does not work
squirrels
Master Don Juan
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Spinning clothesline, then fvck her while she's unconscious. Spell out my name in semen on her blouse and take pictures to show all her co-workers.Originally posted by Sasha
You know that chick you allways look at and think how you would approach her? Well .. how would you?
Gimme you BEST approach you can think of!
DJ_in_making
Master Don Juan
Hand her a $5 bill and ask her for a drink....
"I don't even work here" she says
"I know you don't" I reply.
"So why'd you give it to me?" she asks
"How else would I get you away from all those other guys?" I ask with a ****y grin.....
p.s. Forgive me will smith
"I don't even work here" she says
"I know you don't" I reply.
"So why'd you give it to me?" she asks
"How else would I get you away from all those other guys?" I ask with a ****y grin.....
p.s. Forgive me will smith
MidnightResistance
Senior Don Juan
*applause*
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
spider_007
Master Don Juan
That was a GREAT MOVE.Originally posted by DJ_in_making
Hand her a $5 bill and ask her for a drink....
"I don't even work here" she says
"I know you don't" I reply.
"So why'd you give it to me?" she asks
"How else would I get you away from all those other guys?" I ask with a ****y grin.....
p.s. Forgive me will smith
i've always had this thing, where a hott girl would come up to me or be talking to me and then she would say, fu*k me right now.. i always wondered what i would do if that would happen.
until it did.. and i did nothing, because i was a "good guy" and didn't wanna seize the moment of a HB8 that was drunk as hell hittin on me askin me to give it to her hard. she even tried to drag me outside into the parking lot at this party.. *cries*
until it did.. and i did nothing, because i was a "good guy" and didn't wanna seize the moment of a HB8 that was drunk as hell hittin on me askin me to give it to her hard. she even tried to drag me outside into the parking lot at this party.. *cries*
DJ_in_making
Master Don Juan
.....and you don't feel the least bit embarassed telling everyone this?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
DJ_in_making
Master Don Juan
it's all good, you learn from your mistakes....Originally posted by christz
no, because now its a story that i laugh about, happend last halloween SO, you live and learn