Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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John Carlos

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Hello, guys.

It has been happened twice that I am making out with a new lady and I get hard. They (each one) notice that and told me “I think you are getting hot”.

I don’t know exactly how to answer this.

I would like your advice.

Thank you,



JC.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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That's when you take it to the next level. Round the bases buddy.
 

John Carlos

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Thanks and second round

Thanks, Killa and Grim.

Shall I understand that the lady is telling me "I notice that, I like it"?

The thing happened to me outside of a dance or at the parking lot, for example.

Does it still being a "go an escalate"?

Sorry for this basic stuff, but I don't want to look over-agressive with them .....

Cheers,


JC
 

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Virgin, but says theres alot of other "things"

About the girl i mentioend in my previous post, she said shes a virgin and she wants to wait for marriage, but she doesn't think its a big deal cuz there's "alot of other things u can do". Ok maybe i'm just really inexpereinced, but i can only think of a few, not alot. How kinky is this chick? I mean theirs, giving head, handjobs, 69? what else? She doesn't have a big chest so another thing is ruled out. I guess she just has alot of ways to do those first 2 things. Funny cuz she seems so goody goody and innocent.

Also, on the 3rd date she invited me to her place to watch movies. We made out on her couch. Should i have tried to take it to the next level. I normally would have without a doubt, but she said she was a virgin so i had no clue what was the right thing to do. Maybe i shoudla got a bit more physical then i did all i ddi was make out with her. No groping or nothin. If she invites me over again what should i do? If we're making out, and i grope a little, whats next with a virgin who will only do the "other stuff". I dont wana get smacked for trying to feel her up or anythign . waht do u guys suggest.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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