"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Hello, guys.

It has been happened twice that I am making out with a new lady and I get hard. They (each one) notice that and told me “I think you are getting hot”.

I don’t know exactly how to answer this.

I would like your advice.

Thank you,



JC.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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That's when you take it to the next level. Round the bases buddy.
 

John Carlos

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Thanks and second round

Thanks, Killa and Grim.

Shall I understand that the lady is telling me "I notice that, I like it"?

The thing happened to me outside of a dance or at the parking lot, for example.

Does it still being a "go an escalate"?

Sorry for this basic stuff, but I don't want to look over-agressive with them .....

Cheers,


JC
 

DJinTraining06

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Virgin, but says theres alot of other "things"

About the girl i mentioend in my previous post, she said shes a virgin and she wants to wait for marriage, but she doesn't think its a big deal cuz there's "alot of other things u can do". Ok maybe i'm just really inexpereinced, but i can only think of a few, not alot. How kinky is this chick? I mean theirs, giving head, handjobs, 69? what else? She doesn't have a big chest so another thing is ruled out. I guess she just has alot of ways to do those first 2 things. Funny cuz she seems so goody goody and innocent.

Also, on the 3rd date she invited me to her place to watch movies. We made out on her couch. Should i have tried to take it to the next level. I normally would have without a doubt, but she said she was a virgin so i had no clue what was the right thing to do. Maybe i shoudla got a bit more physical then i did all i ddi was make out with her. No groping or nothin. If she invites me over again what should i do? If we're making out, and i grope a little, whats next with a virgin who will only do the "other stuff". I dont wana get smacked for trying to feel her up or anythign . waht do u guys suggest.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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