"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hello, guys.

It has been happened twice that I am making out with a new lady and I get hard. They (each one) notice that and told me “I think you are getting hot”.

I don’t know exactly how to answer this.

I would like your advice.

Thank you,



JC.
 

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That's when you take it to the next level. Round the bases buddy.
 

John Carlos

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Thanks and second round

Thanks, Killa and Grim.

Shall I understand that the lady is telling me "I notice that, I like it"?

The thing happened to me outside of a dance or at the parking lot, for example.

Does it still being a "go an escalate"?

Sorry for this basic stuff, but I don't want to look over-agressive with them .....

Cheers,


JC
 

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Virgin, but says theres alot of other "things"

About the girl i mentioend in my previous post, she said shes a virgin and she wants to wait for marriage, but she doesn't think its a big deal cuz there's "alot of other things u can do". Ok maybe i'm just really inexpereinced, but i can only think of a few, not alot. How kinky is this chick? I mean theirs, giving head, handjobs, 69? what else? She doesn't have a big chest so another thing is ruled out. I guess she just has alot of ways to do those first 2 things. Funny cuz she seems so goody goody and innocent.

Also, on the 3rd date she invited me to her place to watch movies. We made out on her couch. Should i have tried to take it to the next level. I normally would have without a doubt, but she said she was a virgin so i had no clue what was the right thing to do. Maybe i shoudla got a bit more physical then i did all i ddi was make out with her. No groping or nothin. If she invites me over again what should i do? If we're making out, and i grope a little, whats next with a virgin who will only do the "other stuff". I dont wana get smacked for trying to feel her up or anythign . waht do u guys suggest.
 

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When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

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