"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Yesterday I was at a community event through the church and I saw a really cute girl, but due to both our roles, we could not talk, also I'm we noticed each other.

Today I noticed that she is a mutual friend of a friend on Facebook.

Should I add her on FB and do the texting game or just forget about this?

How would you act in this situation assuming you are really interested in this individual?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Somebody else said recently that you should approach in person if you know you will meet her again, or use FB like you say if you are sure you will not meet her in person again. Anyway, use FB only to get number and use phone to set up a meetup with her.
 
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