"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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bario

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Yesterday I was at a community event through the church and I saw a really cute girl, but due to both our roles, we could not talk, also I'm we noticed each other.

Today I noticed that she is a mutual friend of a friend on Facebook.

Should I add her on FB and do the texting game or just forget about this?

How would you act in this situation assuming you are really interested in this individual?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Somebody else said recently that you should approach in person if you know you will meet her again, or use FB like you say if you are sure you will not meet her in person again. Anyway, use FB only to get number and use phone to set up a meetup with her.
 
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