"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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bario

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Yesterday I was at a community event through the church and I saw a really cute girl, but due to both our roles, we could not talk, also I'm we noticed each other.

Today I noticed that she is a mutual friend of a friend on Facebook.

Should I add her on FB and do the texting game or just forget about this?

How would you act in this situation assuming you are really interested in this individual?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Somebody else said recently that you should approach in person if you know you will meet her again, or use FB like you say if you are sure you will not meet her in person again. Anyway, use FB only to get number and use phone to set up a meetup with her.
 
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