Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
I wouldn't say it is slightly easier to get an older woman in the bedroom. From what I have seen older woman and I consider older 27 and up want to at least feel that you care about them. To me it appears that they want to feel that they are at least headed in the relationship direction. They will test you to see if you really like them. Younger girls still want to have fun and are in the explorement phase.Knight's Cross said:I totally agree with Big J. The older they are, the easier to get them to the bedroom, and the more difficulty you will have in getting rid of them if you pull the eject handle. Same can be said for a BPD chick of any age.
Basically decide what you want. LTR's are typically easier with older (not every case). Games are more often seen with younger.
lol.... Lets call it the bait and switch theory. I could see how older woman would try to manipulate you more than a younger woman. There clock is ticking. But we as men must pick up on these bait and swich specialists.Latinoman said:You cannot mold a woman with a LOT of drama and mistrust in her past. She MIGHT make you believe you have molded her (especially if she is over 35)...I call that "bait"...then once she hooks you...she changes...I call that "switch".
Gold -Latinoman said:You cannot mold a woman with a LOT of drama and mistrust in her past. She MIGHT make you believe you have molded her (especially if she is over 35)...I call that "bait"...then once she hooks you...she changes...I call that "switch".
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Thats the right attitudejophil28 said:I prefer women my own agre (50 year old ) However if I cannot find one who appeals to me could I have TWO 25 year olds instead ?
I just wonder how could any man be attracted to 50 year old pu$$y. Maybe when I am 60 that will be me, but I just can't see it right now.jophil28 said:I prefer women my own agre (50 year old ) However if I cannot find one who appeals to me could I have TWO 25 year olds instead ?
I'm with you on that one lookyoung. Here's a LR I made a year ago about a bad lay with an older women that felt like I was banging sandlookyoung said:I just wonder how could any man be attracted to 50 year old pu$$y. Maybe when I am 60 that will be me, but I just can't see it right now.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
You would be surprised at how good they look and feel IF they have lived healthy. AND they are horny ..lookyoung said:I just wonder how could any man be attracted to 50 year old pu$$y. Maybe when I am 60 that will be me, but I just can't see it right now.
Here are some more code words and common statements that you guys will encounter as you get older.Jitterbug said:I've dated a 28 yo and a 37 yo whose "maturity" is codeword for "pain in the arse". The 18 yo I'm dating atm has a better head on her shoulders.
See I've always found the "no man is going to tell me what to do" line as meaning =jophil28 said:Here are some more code words and common statements that you guys will encounter as you get older.
" NO man is ever going to tell me what to do " ( I am a hard a$$ baitch AND a control freak)
No such thing as a "versus" between the 2, makes as much sense (competition wise) as saying winner vs. loser.Younger woman vs. Older woman.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
You bring up an excellent point. One that more guys need to remember, they can waste their energy complaining about what an AW, flake, high maintenance princess or a gold digging hor but the bottom line is, if your Don Juan enough any of those lovely ladies will be in line to suck your kawk.( . )( . ) said:See I've always found the "no man is going to tell me what to do" line as meaning =
My jerk days are over (unfortunately), and now more than likely I'm stuck with the losers who force me to play more of a "dominant" role. But sh!t at the end of the day I'm still a chick so talk is cheap and if I even get the smallest sniff your a man of value...hell I'll let you beat me within an inch of my life if that's what it takes and still come back for more.