"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Younger woman vs. Older woman.
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
I wouldn't say it is slightly easier to get an older woman in the bedroom. From what I have seen older woman and I consider older 27 and up want to at least feel that you care about them. To me it appears that they want to feel that they are at least headed in the relationship direction. They will test you to see if you really like them. Younger girls still want to have fun and are in the explorement phase.Knight's Cross said:I totally agree with Big J. The older they are, the easier to get them to the bedroom, and the more difficulty you will have in getting rid of them if you pull the eject handle. Same can be said for a BPD chick of any age.
Basically decide what you want. LTR's are typically easier with older (not every case). Games are more often seen with younger.
I agree that it will be harder to get rid of the older chicks. And the younger ones do tend to play more games. Especially the 20-24 year old crowd. At that age they are exploring life and have too many things going on.
I spoke to the 21 year old girl that I am banging today and she is taking a job as a waitress at a bar. That is not what I consider relationship material and I am going to next her azz.
The way I see it I think every man should date a little younger being that we are visual creatures and younger woman are the prize in out society.
lol.... Lets call it the bait and switch theory. I could see how older woman would try to manipulate you more than a younger woman. There clock is ticking. But we as men must pick up on these bait and swich specialists.Latinoman said:You cannot mold a woman with a LOT of drama and mistrust in her past. She MIGHT make you believe you have molded her (especially if she is over 35)...I call that "bait"...then once she hooks you...she changes...I call that "switch".
jophil28
Master Don Juan
Gold -Latinoman said:You cannot mold a woman with a LOT of drama and mistrust in her past. She MIGHT make you believe you have molded her (especially if she is over 35)...I call that "bait"...then once she hooks you...she changes...I call that "switch".
I learned this lesson the hard way -Women who grew up with drama at home make terrible LTRs - TERRIBLE !!! They are Academy Award winning actresses and usually have significant attachment problems in adult relationships..
jophil28
Master Don Juan
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Thats the right attitudejophil28 said:I prefer women my own agre (50 year old ) However if I cannot find one who appeals to me could I have TWO 25 year olds instead ?
I just wonder how could any man be attracted to 50 year old pu$$y. Maybe when I am 60 that will be me, but I just can't see it right now.jophil28 said:I prefer women my own agre (50 year old ) However if I cannot find one who appeals to me could I have TWO 25 year olds instead ?
MacAvoy
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I'm with you on that one lookyoung. Here's a LR I made a year ago about a bad lay with an older women that felt like I was banging sandlookyoung said:I just wonder how could any man be attracted to 50 year old pu$$y. Maybe when I am 60 that will be me, but I just can't see it right now.
MacAvoy
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I've had plenty of 30-40 yr old women and have never had a problem with that.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Me, that's who:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0HIyQsNGTCQ
:cheer:
jophil28
Master Don Juan
You would be surprised at how good they look and feel IF they have lived healthy. AND they are horny ..lookyoung said:I just wonder how could any man be attracted to 50 year old pu$$y. Maybe when I am 60 that will be me, but I just can't see it right now.
jophil28
Master Don Juan
Here are some more code words and common statements that you guys will encounter as you get older.Jitterbug said:I've dated a 28 yo and a 37 yo whose "maturity" is codeword for "pain in the arse". The 18 yo I'm dating atm has a better head on her shoulders.
Women say in quotes , meaning in parenthesis.
" Im independent" ( I have a job and I did real well out of the property settlement)
" Im a strong woman " ( I am a hard a$$ baitch)
" Men are dogs" ( I can't get laid )
" "Woman power ..." ( I am a control freak )
" NO man is ever going to tell me what to do " ( I am a hard a$$ baitch AND a control freak)
" All men just want sex" ( This suits me because I have the golden pvssy)
" I just want a caring man " ( I want a servant )
" I want to be in an equal relationship " ( I want to be a little more equal that him)
" Women can have it all " ( Why cant I find a man to give it all to me)
" I want a man to protect me " (I want man to do all the heavy lifting )
" My Ex was a jerk " ( I am a blamer )
" Men are thoughtless " ( Men should read my mind )
I could go on ...
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See I've always found the "no man is going to tell me what to do" line as meaning =jophil28 said:Here are some more code words and common statements that you guys will encounter as you get older.
" NO man is ever going to tell me what to do " ( I am a hard a$$ baitch AND a control freak)
My jerk days are over (unfortunately), and now more than likely I'm stuck with the losers who force me to play more of a "dominant" role. But sh!t at the end of the day I'm still a chick so talk is cheap and if I even get the smallest sniff your a man of value...hell I'll let you beat me within an inch of my life if that's what it takes and still come back for more. I like your pants btw, are YOU my hero?
Anyways I just had to point out the obvious oxymoron in the title of this thread.
No such thing as a "versus" between the 2, makes as much sense (competition wise) as saying winner vs. loser.Younger woman vs. Older woman.
Carry on.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
MacAvoy
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You bring up an excellent point. One that more guys need to remember, they can waste their energy complaining about what an AW, flake, high maintenance princess or a gold digging hor but the bottom line is, if your Don Juan enough any of those lovely ladies will be in line to suck your kawk.( . )( . ) said:See I've always found the "no man is going to tell me what to do" line as meaning =
My jerk days are over (unfortunately), and now more than likely I'm stuck with the losers who force me to play more of a "dominant" role. But sh!t at the end of the day I'm still a chick so talk is cheap and if I even get the smallest sniff your a man of value...hell I'll let you beat me within an inch of my life if that's what it takes and still come back for more.