"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Younger than 21, First Outing?

ILikeGirls<3

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Where should I take a girl younger than 21 who cant drink yet, first time I'm calling her up? Movies dont give me much talk time for all those hours spent, so that leaves me with a restaurant is all I can think of. Ideally I would want to bring her somehwere private afterwards, so I dont want to be out for more than a couple hours. Any other suggestions?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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CrunchyNut

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Ice skating? Bowling?
 

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Don't know what you have access to, but have a picnic at a quiet scenic park or go to a secuded beach. They work every time.
 

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ILikeGirls<3 said:
Where should I take a girl younger than 21 who cant drink yet, first time I'm calling her up? Movies dont give me much talk time for all those hours spent, so that leaves me with a restaurant is all I can think of. Ideally I would want to bring her somehwere private afterwards, so I dont want to be out for more than a couple hours. Any other suggestions?
It's all about action my man. Ice skating and bowling were mentioned and those are both good choices. Basically you want to do something where you both get a bit of adrenaline flowing and don't reveal too much of yourself through conversation.
 

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My newest day2 is Target...I start roleplaying and creating a Conspiracy that were getting married and moving in together and we basically trick the staff and ask to see the TVs, dish washers, etc. An we decide on which ones we'd buy for our house. This takes about an hour or two depending how into it you get.

Then if she has crappy DVDs, I usually get a DVD and go to her house.

Before this it was going to a costume store lol but I find big stores like best buy, walmart, target, etc to be better places because its so big.

I personally don't do traditional dates because really I don't go to movies, haven't in 2 years. Only thing I actually do is go out to eat because I love food, so every so often I'd invite a chick to roll with me while I go eat. But it's rare that this is the first place I ever take a chick because I like to get sex out the way first before I make her do things with me in my life that would cost money.

By summer or whenever I get a break from school I'm taking cooking lessons, so my next day2 might be me going to her house and we both cook some food, watch a movie and sex.

Nothing can be done at my house because of parents and attack dogs lol.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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