Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Younger than 21, First Outing?

ILikeGirls<3

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Where should I take a girl younger than 21 who cant drink yet, first time I'm calling her up? Movies dont give me much talk time for all those hours spent, so that leaves me with a restaurant is all I can think of. Ideally I would want to bring her somehwere private afterwards, so I dont want to be out for more than a couple hours. Any other suggestions?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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CrunchyNut

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Ice skating? Bowling?
 

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Don't know what you have access to, but have a picnic at a quiet scenic park or go to a secuded beach. They work every time.
 

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ILikeGirls<3 said:
Where should I take a girl younger than 21 who cant drink yet, first time I'm calling her up? Movies dont give me much talk time for all those hours spent, so that leaves me with a restaurant is all I can think of. Ideally I would want to bring her somehwere private afterwards, so I dont want to be out for more than a couple hours. Any other suggestions?
It's all about action my man. Ice skating and bowling were mentioned and those are both good choices. Basically you want to do something where you both get a bit of adrenaline flowing and don't reveal too much of yourself through conversation.
 

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My newest day2 is Target...I start roleplaying and creating a Conspiracy that were getting married and moving in together and we basically trick the staff and ask to see the TVs, dish washers, etc. An we decide on which ones we'd buy for our house. This takes about an hour or two depending how into it you get.

Then if she has crappy DVDs, I usually get a DVD and go to her house.

Before this it was going to a costume store lol but I find big stores like best buy, walmart, target, etc to be better places because its so big.

I personally don't do traditional dates because really I don't go to movies, haven't in 2 years. Only thing I actually do is go out to eat because I love food, so every so often I'd invite a chick to roll with me while I go eat. But it's rare that this is the first place I ever take a chick because I like to get sex out the way first before I make her do things with me in my life that would cost money.

By summer or whenever I get a break from school I'm taking cooking lessons, so my next day2 might be me going to her house and we both cook some food, watch a movie and sex.

Nothing can be done at my house because of parents and attack dogs lol.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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