“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Young look versus old look

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Also I agree it's better to embrace your natural look even if it's a bit older looking. There's nothing less attractive IMO than a man attempting to hide his age to attract the ladies or for any reason.

Age reflects character for a man. Grey hair, white hair, a few lines. What's important to me personally is a man who takes pride in his appearance who makes the most of what he has. Naturally.

Working out, a great physique, dressing well and age appropriate is something you can control and improve naturally. It also reflects that pride.

Embrace it! :D
 
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Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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are there rules for different ages ?

15-20
21-30
31-40
41-50
51-60
61-70
71-80
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i mean what is the cut off for young/vs old. are there different answers based on how old....

when i was 15, 30 looked very old....
 

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Also I agree it's better to embrace your natural look even if it's a bit older looking. There's nothing less attractive IMO than a man attempting to hide his age to attract the ladies or for any reason.

Age reflects character for a man. Grey hair, white hair, a few lines. What's important to me personally is a man who takes pride in his appearance who makes the most of what he has. Naturally.

Working out, a great physique, dressing well and age appropriate is something you can control and improve naturally. It also reflects that pride.

Embrace it! :D
I think that depends on a person's style and whatever works for him, and of course being healthy too.

are there rules for different ages ?

15-20
21-30
31-40
41-50
51-60
61-70
71-80
81++

i mean what is the cut off for young/vs old. are there different answers based on how old....

when i was 15, 30 looked very old....
see, it's contextual.
 

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The "just born" look works pretty well for me.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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The main thing is don't look like grandpa. Seriously.

Khakis and plaid shirts look quintessentially "Gramps" and any really young gal is going to percieve you that way......

The biggest deal is not to have a protruding belly. A protruding belly (beer belly/dad bod/belly sagging over your belt or pelvis). Some men also develop a saggy ass or no-ass-at-all.

Combine that with horse shoe bald? Screams old man. Now. Some men embrace it and don't care...but typically they are not trying to date much younger women. They typically have been married for decades or, if widowers, are dating other senior citizens.

If that is not what you want? You gotta lose the gut and dress in a hip/current way.

Saggy bellies are far and away a huge turn off. If you have one? Losing it should be top priority because you can't hide it no matter what you wear.
Great post,and so true
 
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