Marvin Gaye
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Young Guy tries Pickup
- Thread starter Marvin Gaye
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
flashpoint
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"i just got a new phone and i need some numbers, can i have yours?"
and when she says " i dont understand" he takes his game to the next level and comes back with "i need some numbers so i have people i can talk to" HAHAHA ... talk about DHV :crackup:
or
"why would do you want to have my number? - because i think you are kind of cute" - gets her wet within an instant
or
"do you have a boyfriend?"
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"i am michael.SILENCE. i am michael" - super creepy haha
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" i could have gone more alpha, talk to you directly you know?" classic lol
now what is wrong with that? guess all? boy says he has read "the game" and it totally has changed the way he interacts with girls. not to the better it seems though
but you gotta give him some credit for trying. that's more than most people do. hope he has some sort of learning ability so that all the effort is not for nothing. plus we are talking highschool kids here so cant blame him for lack of insight.
and when she says " i dont understand" he takes his game to the next level and comes back with "i need some numbers so i have people i can talk to" HAHAHA ... talk about DHV :crackup:
or
"why would do you want to have my number? - because i think you are kind of cute" - gets her wet within an instant
or
"do you have a boyfriend?"
or
"i am michael.SILENCE. i am michael" - super creepy haha
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" i could have gone more alpha, talk to you directly you know?" classic lol
now what is wrong with that? guess all? boy says he has read "the game" and it totally has changed the way he interacts with girls. not to the better it seems though
but you gotta give him some credit for trying. that's more than most people do. hope he has some sort of learning ability so that all the effort is not for nothing. plus we are talking highschool kids here so cant blame him for lack of insight.
Seriously?
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**** game, but more bollocks then I had at that age or still have currently. Something I could do more, just grow a pair and go chat with girls. It's a numbers game.
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BeDJ
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You wanna buy it?
What is it?
So do you wanna buy it?
What is it?
So do you wanna buy it?
Seriously?
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I think he would have more success doing this: http://www.liveleak.com/view?i=ee2_1350525560.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
flashpoint
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:crackup:Seriously? said:
as they say it's a numbers game. if he keeps trying like lets say a million times, he might find that diamond that appreciates his efforts. or a hooker.
btw., is it just me or was it that the ugliest girls were the most upset?
Marvin Gaye
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Your comment makes me say, "seriously" lol it's really not hard what the guy did, and thanks for the liveleak link !Seriously? said:
Marvin Gaye
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flashpoint said:"i just got a new phone and i need some numbers, can i have yours?"
and when she says " i dont understand" he takes his game to the next level and comes back with "i need some numbers so i have people i can talk to" HAHAHA ... talk about DHV :crackup:
or
"why would do you want to have my number? - because i think you are kind of cute" - gets her wet within an instant
or
"do you have a boyfriend?"
or
"i am michael.SILENCE. i am michael" - super creepy haha
or
" i could have gone more alpha, talk to you directly you know?" classic lol
now what is wrong with that? guess all? boy says he has read "the game" and it totally has changed the way he interacts with girls. not to the better it seems though
but you gotta give him some credit for trying. that's more than most people do. hope he has some sort of learning ability so that all the effort is not for nothing. plus we are talking highschool kids here so cant blame him for lack of insight.
and when she says " i dont understand" he takes his game to the next level and comes back with "i need some numbers so i have people i can talk to" HAHAHA ... talk about DHV :crackup:
I laughed at this part of your post haha
Prometheus Pyrphoros
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That made me cringe.
The boy seems to have the balls but not the knowledge and a gameplan.
A young grasshopper indeed.
The boy seems to have the balls but not the knowledge and a gameplan.
A young grasshopper indeed.
Marvin Gaye
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Yeah, I am! Some people on the board know what I look likeScottMustaine said:
By the way digging your username bro
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
That's cool that you went out, did your thing, and taped it for us. That's the best feedback you can get and your ballsy approach will allow for better constructive criticism.
My first opinion is that you should drop the silly, troll-y openers. Those openers are funny for you and your friends but they aren't the way to chat up a woman. I think you should try a situation-specific opener and ask a question about the store/gym/area you are in. A woman will take you more seriously if you step to them in a more serious manner.
My first opinion is that you should drop the silly, troll-y openers. Those openers are funny for you and your friends but they aren't the way to chat up a woman. I think you should try a situation-specific opener and ask a question about the store/gym/area you are in. A woman will take you more seriously if you step to them in a more serious manner.
Fly By Night
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This exactly sums up what was going on in this vid. You seem to find amazing value in getting phone numbers instead of getting to know the girl. Are you going to take her phone number out to dinner or something?BeginningDJ said:
Funny vid though.
Marvin Gaye
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please respond
You have the balls, and you are easy to talk to. I think you might want to change your body language to a more proud posture though - more erect. Also try to add some value with a few jokes and fluff before you go for the number. See what you have in common with the chicks. Also don't forget to qualify them. Be critical.
In short, the word I'm looking for, and what I'm not seeing in the video's is RAPPORT. Learn how to build it.
In short, the word I'm looking for, and what I'm not seeing in the video's is RAPPORT. Learn how to build it.
JohnChops
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hell yeah man, you got the balls for sure! Now if you do some toning then youll be all set! Actually be interested in what you have to say and what she has to say do not go in a store and fake anything, you need to be genuine and actually want a females opinion or whatever your asking for. "Can I have a quick females opinion on these shoes, shirt, pants, condoms ( )." Let it flow. Youll get it soon enough , practice makes perfect.
Ah and also, why is it called retard tries to pick up women .... if its you? I understand its odd going out and filming yourself but have a little confidence man its only the internet , words dont mean sh1t! IF you fail then we help you if you succeed we will point it out!
)." Let it flow. Youll get it soon enough , practice makes perfect.Ah and also, why is it called retard tries to pick up women .... if its you? I understand its odd going out and filming yourself but have a little confidence man its only the internet , words dont mean sh1t! IF you fail then we help you if you succeed we will point it out!
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
powpow
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ok obviously his game is really ****ty compared with our standards.
his body language is all beta'd out, his lines are too direct, and the girls recognize it's canned, he stalls and falters, and he's too direct.
BUT
remember this guy is in HIGH SCHOOL
so the important thing is not his game, but how much balls he has and his ability to apply what he reads into actually doing something with it.
he will learn and grow and refine his game. I give this guy a 100% from me.
his body language is all beta'd out, his lines are too direct, and the girls recognize it's canned, he stalls and falters, and he's too direct.
BUT
remember this guy is in HIGH SCHOOL
so the important thing is not his game, but how much balls he has and his ability to apply what he reads into actually doing something with it.
he will learn and grow and refine his game. I give this guy a 100% from me.